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Admin	few extra pounds Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 01:20 PM Is this a real important factor in choose Your mate? Why? Step up and be honest!:laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 14 Jul, 2011 02:56 PM Yes, there are people out there who don't care if you are overweight or not. If you want to wait around for years until you find that person, go ahead. But, if you want to be realistic then you will lose the weight. I am fat. I'm not proud of it, just being a realist. And I also understand that I will turn women off by that. But, I am not going to go around bashing women telling them they are wrong for not wanting someone who is fat. You are not stuck at the weight that you are at. Your weight is something you can change about yourself. For some it is easy, for others it is not, but you can change it. One thing that seems to get lost in all of this is the fact that being overweight is unhealthy. Even if you weren't concerned about attracting someone, you should at least lose the weight for health reasons. Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 14 Jul, 2011 08:54 PM Cobbler (You are not stuck at the weight that you are at. Your weight is something you can change about yourself. For some it is easy, for others it is not, but you can change it.) This is very true. I am not fat but overweight and I am working on it with exercise and watching my diet. I am not doing it to attract a Man but for my Own health. I do see many Men on Christian date sites that do say they do not want a Overweight woman and want Full photos so they can see for themself. Some are not looking at just the Heart of a Woman. :laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 14 Jul, 2011 09:03 PM No one gets married for just one simple reason. People get married for many things, one of which is appearance. This does not mean that women should become anorexic, but simply a healthy weight. I get a little frustrated when women complain about guys wanting a full length picture. If you only met the person in real life, then they would get to see what you looked like. You don�t run around with a large piece of cardboard blocking you view. The rules don�t change simply because you are online. If you came to this site because you thought things would be different, then you are going to be disappointed. The only benefit of online dating is that you can expand the number of people that you meet. To try and ignore the truth is foolish. Like I said, you may very well find someone who doesn�t care, but those are few and far between. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 17 Jul, 2011 02:45 AM I recall when I was a bigger man women of equitible girth didn't pay me no mind, however the pounds came off and the same or similar women started noticing...seems like if all women paid attention too was whats in a mans heart more avg Joes would have themselves some real beuts, but that aint the case as far as I can see....I guess what Im saying is it goes both ways, and Ive known big women who only go after more fit men. Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 18 Jul, 2011 09:20 AM Some people ARE trying to lose the weight, but it's not something that can be done overnight. Some gain weight through no fault of their own--a medical condition, perhaps, or a side-effect of medication. Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 18 Jul, 2011 04:39 PM Personally a woman who's a little over weight or a few extra pounds is no big deal to me at all. Women who are too skinny is unappealing to me. A good example are those models that are size 0 with their bones protruding out >_O. Post Reply
Christiancowboy1 View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 18 Jul, 2011 06:23 PM I would have to say that for the most part most men are all about how a woman looks on the outside. It's not how what we as Christians are called to do according to the word. According to the word we are called to be equally yoked. Most people (men and even women alike) go on looks, and then desire to build a relationship from there. Most never take into consideration just being friends with their eyes open to being equally yoked and allowing the Lord to prove it in time. No they just start dating upon looks and try to build or force a relationship to be what each thinks and whats it to be, and then wonder why it ends in divorce...How do I know....been there...done that....have the T-Shirts.... I pray this makes sense and that the Lord will guide to you to the one you are equally yoked with. That one who will love you for who you are in him. Blessings, David Post Reply
Karenswalk View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 15 Aug, 2011 02:33 PM I have found that some Christian men tend to be much more judgmental on weight. I have curves and I am proud of them. When I was stick thin I was sick all the time. The Lord makes all kinds of body shapes and sizes. Who is man to say that the Lord made something "ugly or unattractive". In His eyes he sees all of us as beautiful. I have dated heavy men and skinny guys. I only want to be with a man who appreciates me for all of me. Just as I would him. I think all women are beautiful in their own way. Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 02:16 PM I personally am overweight. I know that and it is has been a struggle for me to get this weight down. I have not given up. The right man will love and accept me for the whole package. It may take time, yet I am in no rush. I still continue working on my life challenges and wait on God's timing of the right man becoming apart of my life. God loves me and is jealous over me. No matter what others would say, I am a beautiful Christian woman made in God's loving image. I am his daughter. In Christ. :waving: All praises to God and him alone! Post Reply

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