Author	Thread: This question is for those of you who dislike drama.
Admin	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 03:21 PM I understand not liking drama. Really. I do. I don't particularly enjoy my own drama when it happens. But seriously, who doesn't have some drama from time-to-time?! When I see a profile in which the guy states that he does not want to be involved with a girl who has drama, my first thought is that he's totally in La-la-land. Life IS dramatic. So, I guess this is my question: What will you do when drama happens while you're married (and it will!)? Will you just bury your head in the sand and pretend it's not happening? Will you divorce your wife? Will you get mad at her because you expected that nothing dramatic would ever happen? Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 03:36 PM I agree, there will be drama in life. My opinion on when people say they don't want drama is that it shouldn't be one drama after another. There are those people out there who somehow create or manage to be involved in drama on what seems to be a daily basis. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 03:50 PM Yes, there are different types of drama, but the guys I've seen on here don't make any kind of differentiation in their "no drama" statements. If a guy merely means that he won't put up with a wife who throws a tantrum every other day when she breaks a nail, then he should be straightforward and say that. When I see these vague references to not liking drama, the assumption (for me anyway) is that he dislikes ALL drama and is the sort who would bury his head in the sand or run off when life gets tough. Wife has a miscarriage? Better go have an affair because she's not too fun to be around anymore. Teenage daughter totals the car? Time to get a divorce because marriage and family just isn't working for you anymore. Those examples sound extreme, but I think we all know that they're not. Married men (and women) do these things ALL the time. The rare guy who is open about why he buried his head in the sand or why he divorced his wife will usually admit that a strong aversion to drama is at the core of his problem. I'm not understanding why such fellows, who have aversions to drama, are even on a dating site. I'm really not sure if they're suited for marriage if they can't deal with a little drama. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 03:54 PM Actually, a better way to communicate one's preference for not wanting the sort of woman who throws tantrums over broken nails would be to say that he doesn't want someone selfish who has self-centered priorities and who freaks out when her material world gets little dings in it or when her life doesn't go exactly as she expected. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 04:45 PM Pixy, the problem with saying that you don�t want a self-centered person is that most self-centered people don�t think they are self-centered. Actually, most people don�t admit that they have really annoying character qualities, not even to themselves. I tend to agree with shawn�s definition, it is the women who turn everything into a major problem, the ones, as you say, are self-centered and want everyone�s attention all the time, that is what we don�t want. We want a woman who can deal with life�s little problems. For me, marriage is about being there for the good times and the bad times. If you are not willing to stick around for hard times, I don�t want you around for the good. Working through the hard times is was brings a relationship closer together. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 07:29 PM One of the first rules of horse training is: Do not let a horse pull you into their drama. When starting a young horse, the greatest thing you can do for it is teach it,everything new, uncomfortable or out of the ordinary is NOT a excuse for drama. Teach them to relax and deal with life as it comes. The horse that doesn't learn this is a dangerous horse, sooner or later it is going to hurt someone, they never hardly ever have a happy fulfilled life and usually end up euthanized. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 07:35 PM You are trying to say that you think women who cry over broken nails and try to pull everyone into their tantrums ought to be euthanized? Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 07:50 PM Open Mouth... ...Insert Foot! :ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 09:05 PM I was waiting for someone to ask that.... Obviously, No But what I am saying is, they are dangerous, they hurt others around them, typically those who love them, they ruin families, children, and good husbands. For horses that kick it is common courtesy to tie a ribbon on the tail so others will know not to get to close, perhaps these drama queens could where a sign around their neck? Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 09:38 PM That could be my home business. I could make necklaces and t-shirts for drama queens. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 10:19 PM Us men are so dumb, the prettier they were, the less chance we would notice the sign or believe it even if we happened to accidentally read it while staring at clevage. Post Reply

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