Author	Thread: sex before marriage..need help!
Admin	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 09:56 AM This may be a silly question but I would love a Christian man's perspective on this. I have been divorced for ten years and even though my college days were a little wild, I choose six years ago to save myself for marriage. For some reason I attract the men who say they admire that I'm willing to wait, but then imply that they want to sleep with me. Are there really men out there that are wanting to wait and put God first? Or am I looking at being single for the rest of my life? Honesty is highly appreciated. Thank you and God Bless, Dawn Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 10:29 AM You just had to bring this up, didn't you! Right after I promised I would curtail my posts about s-x. Yes I practice celibacy. And have found that if you don't, "try to get some" they think.you don't like them. The next thing that happens is they try yo seduce you like it has become some challenge or test of their womanhood. Then finally they just give up but let you know plainly in a birthday or valentine card that you can have it whenever you want. I did write a poem titled 'SEX' in the ask a guy section you might like. It got great reviews but others we're conspicuously silent. Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 03:11 PM No Compromise Sis &&& your 100% doing write before the LOrd:)Pray him in & belive I can see your not gonna be alone,your a Women after the Lords own Hart and deeply desired im sure. Temptation allways creeps at the corner of any door for what ever reason but the Lord stands for us before our Father:) Keep up the GoOd Fight :) Blessings Gorden Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 03:45 PM JoyFul, I feel sorry for TwoSparrow. It must be difficult when all those women are tossing their Pan*ies at him. He (Two) confuses me though because he says ��if you don't, "try to get some" they think.you don't like them� So�if he trys to �gets some� and then pushes them away�isn�t that kind of Schizo? Confusing� I admire your stance. You could say that your being celibate for all those years sort of makes you a �Virgin� again. I would imagine that on your wedding night the act of �giving� yourself to the man that you Love will be Quite AWESOME! And I would also think that any man worth his salt�would appreciate that sentiment and would also find that act�AWESOME!! Not to mention doing what God Wants! You will be hard pressed to find a man (even a Christian man) that can remain Celibate. I would think that at the first sign of them wavering you would realize that �they are what they are� and move on. It will not be easy, but if you do find that man�chances are that he will be truly God�s Man! My prayers go out to you! Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 07:09 PM thank you for the encouragment brother:). Funny part is, it God want desires me to be single for the rest of my life, I would gladly honor Him. However, I just hope being single forever wouldn't be a reflection of the men in the US with the lack of obidience, lol. Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 07:12 PM Thank you, Archimedes what awesome feedback. I highly appreciate you. God Bless you always:) Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 07:28 PM @Arch Great post! The last half anyway. I'm just sharing my real life here, I can't help how things have been; it hasn't been easy and the enemy uses it. BTW :Geeze, can't you post something without mentioning me? Am I the only one who cares enough to say : you are embarrassing yourself. Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 07:40 PM As the outsider I can see where both of you are coming from. I understood Twosparrows message, because he was trying to share something with me that he thought I would relate to. However, I also understood your message Archimedes, because it sounds like you were concerned that I was givien the wrong feedback. I believe both of your intentions were good. However, I do feel that if someone is confronted, it should be with honor. For we all brothers and sisters in Christ, right? Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 07:59 PM Joyful: your not alone, there are many of us on here that are saving themselves for marriage. and we all are going through the same thing. bless you River Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 08:01 PM you go girl, River you are a beautiful woman. thank you for taking your time to share that with me:) Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 11:26 PM See, as a single male virgin I have been told that if I get with a woman and then stay with my morals and abstain from sex that they will get the impression that I'm not interested in them Christian or non Christian...so what I've been told goes along with what twosparrows said..I however feel it is important to stick with my morals and if she feels that way then she doesn't understand me and if that's the case her loss...if she can't wait and make the commitment first then she can't have me...plain and simple. Post Reply

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