Author	Thread: Keeping ex's photo...
cmseeker10 View Profile History	Keeping ex's photo... Posted : 28 Oct, 2010 05:23 AM Hello brothers, I have a question for you all and every idea /response will be highly appreciated. 1.Are you a guy who would keep your ex's wife or girlfriend's photo even the relationship is over?Why? 2.Is it ok if a lady you're presently dating ask you why? 3.Would you regard it as being confrontational? Keeping a family pics like your ex and the kids is undertandable but solo photos and photo of you both is a two different thing. Most of us ladies get rid of past relationship photos so I wanna know what's the difference ..Hope to hear from you guys.. Lis.. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Keeping ex's photo... Posted : 28 Oct, 2010 07:48 AM There's only one girlfriend I completely expunged from my Facebook photo record. It's not worth it to remove the others. As far as actual physical pictures go, I don't remember actually ever getting any other than from a high school girlfriend. Who even knows where those are these days? Post Reply
cmseeker10 View Profile History	Keeping ex's photo... Posted : 28 Oct, 2010 02:53 PM Thanks Tulip I appreciate that but what about the others.Any other answers as to why?:dancingp::peace::dancingp: Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Keeping ex's photo... Posted : 28 Oct, 2010 05:40 PM They're part of my story and a part of my past. I haven't talked to most of them since we broke up, but we had some fun times together, we were good friends, and I don't see any reason to try and forget them completely. If I constantly looked back at the pictures, had framed ones in my apartment, or dwelled on our relationship, it might be a problem, but I don't. If a new girlfriend wanted me to go through and untag all the pictures of me and ex girlfriends years back, I'd be forced to question why she was so insecure about our relationship. It's not like I care if she's still tagged in pictures with her ex boyfriends. Post Reply
cmseeker10 View Profile History	Keeping ex's photo... Posted : 28 Oct, 2010 09:23 PM Whewwww Tulip,That's exactly what he told me.I felt insecure and those pics meant nothing.Actually he doesn't have them on his FB the only lady pics he has there is mine..See I really want to know why from a guys perspective because we ladies see it diferently .I've posted it at the ask a girl forum and most of the responses is the same.(guy hasn't moved on yet) Post Reply
rainbowian View Profile History	Keeping ex's photo... Posted : 28 Oct, 2010 09:44 PM 1. No. I don't see a need to hold onto them. 2. Yes. I would have no problem with that. Personally I wouldn't consider her to be insecure because of it. 3. Not at all. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Keeping ex's photo... Posted : 28 Oct, 2010 09:46 PM Please don't hear me saying he's inherently innocent. He very well may be still hung up on his past relationships. Still having pictures somewhere is just not proof in and of itself. If he's looking at them, has them out around the house, etc., then there might be a problem. Just don't let your insecurities ruin something good you've got going. Post Reply
cmseeker10 View Profile History	Keeping ex's photo... Posted : 28 Oct, 2010 09:52 PM Thanks rainbow ,can you atleast explain why there is no need to hold them. :bow::bow: Lissy Post Reply
rainbowian View Profile History	Keeping ex's photo... Posted : 29 Oct, 2010 04:07 PM I feel that it would be an unnecessary distraction as well as being very disrespectful to the current person. Post Reply
cmseeker10 View Profile History	Keeping ex's photo... Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 04:55 AM Exactly...hmmmm I guess question answered.Thank you for sharing those ideas and experience.God bless you.. In Christ sis.Lissy Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Keeping ex's photo... Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 09:48 AM How is it disrespectful to still have them? Post Reply

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