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Admin	What is your sexual fantasy??? Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 09:24 PM Gotcha!! :ROFL: Yall know I couldn't ask that question on this forum. Yall so crazy. Okay, the real question is one that was asked about 6 - 7 months ago, but maybe because of it's location in dating advice, it didn't get much response. Do you believe in soulmates? Do you believe there is one great love out there & you've got to find it? Is it just a romantic ideal, born of movies? Post Reply
View Profile History	What is your sexual fantasy??? Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 10:00 PM You crazy girl! First FB, now this, LOL! That's a good question though. While I can't speak for everyone, after much praying and soul searching, I certainly believe I have found mine. I really believe that there is someone for everyone. As far as my definition of soulmate, a person with whom one ...has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, love, intimacy, spirituality, and compatibility. Like Forrest Gump says, someone you get along like "peas and carrots" with and you can think of nobody else. I don't know if we "must" find them, or are "destined" to find them, but I believe it is certainly beneficial to try! Post Reply
cowgirl1984 View Profile History	What is your sexual fantasy??? Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 10:12 PM Oh wow, haha. I opened this thread to find out WHAT THE HECK you were doing!!! hahaha. Okay, so here is my take: "Do you believe in soulmates?" Yes, but I think of a soulmate differently than most people define it. I think a soulmate can be a platonic best friend. "Do you believe there is one great love out there & you've got to find it?" No. I believe that it depends on the person. I think some people, God has designed a specific person for them. But I think that most people, it's just a certain TYPE of person we're meant to be with. Plus, if there were only one great love for everyone, then widows and widowers would be alone for the remainder of their lives... Another point is that, in the Bible, a lot of marriages were either arranged or part of a custom, and also there are a few people in there who were married multiple times. I don't mean multiple wives at once, LOL. I mean one person at a time more than once :) A perfect example is Ruth. Ruth was married, and her husband died. Based on the customs and laws, she was to be married to her late husband's closest living relative. Of course most of us know the story of how she ended up marrying his second closest relative because Boaz loved her and was tricky with the closest relative :) Which that is totally the stuff of movies! But she was married more than once, and the second marriage was one that stemmed from the customs and laws of the time. "Is it just a romantic ideal, born of movies?" I think so. But I also think that sometimes these things work out kind of the way it does in the movies. But I also think real life is very different and relationships are so romanticized in movies that sometimes we miss out on amazing real life moments. If you have seen the movie The Wedding Planner with Jennifer Lopez (adorable chick flick), it makes me mad. I don't want to ruin it because it's a good movie, but I'm going to. It's predictable anyway, haha. But basically, she has a choice between an arranged marriage with a man who she's not attracted to, or a man who is engaged to be married but not truly in love with his fiancee. She goes to get married to the arranged guy and he goes to marry his fiancee, but both call off the wedding. And J Lo and the previously engaged guy end up together. I'm sure most people thought that was great. I was rooting for the arranged guy!! His marriage proposal to her is amazing and beautiful and to me that is what it should be. I don't mean all marriages should be arranged, I just mean that if you listen to his proposal, it is a beautiful expression of the marriage relationship. Post Reply
View Profile History	What is your sexual fantasy??? Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 10:52 PM A wife who wants to make love 5 times a day. :ROLF: sorry I did borrow that from another post. . .you know who :-) Post Reply
View Profile History	What is your sexual fantasy??? Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 11:07 PM Mr. Twosparrows-:rocknroll::peace: If you only knew how bad I wanted to put that down! :ROFL: You da man! Post Reply
View Profile History	What is your sexual fantasy??? Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 11:33 PM @ --> twosparrows... :ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	What is your sexual fantasy??? Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 02:37 AM Twosparrows? Even if e'erbody else scared to post now, ...that.....was .......WORTH IT!!! :ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::dancingp::dancingp::peace::peace::yay: Boy, we see eye to eye, I might need to inbox you my number!!:laugh: I'll see if some other brave souls will answer before I post my thoughts. Post Reply
DEEDEE72 View Profile History	What is your sexual fantasy??? Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 02:57 AM You did get me and no I am not that brave...I believe honestly that this causes alot of issues. People get into a marriage things do not work out the way they thought because some people do not realise relationships take work. So they feel they are not with "the one" God wants them to be happy so they leave current spouse to find "soulmate." I honestly feel that God will lead me to the right person an the perosn I marry IS my soulmate. God knew before the foundations of the world we would marry each other... Post Reply
View Profile History	What is your sexual fantasy??? Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 03:27 AM Hey, thanks e'erbody who has answered thus far. Wanted to be clear. I'm not expecting yall to answer the fantasy question. I was just playin' with yall. What?? This conservative bunch? Nah. Just wanted to bring a smile to your faces. Post Reply
View Profile History	What is your sexual fantasy??? Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 04:28 AM Soulmate comes from a concept of Plato. He believed that we are all created with four arms, four legs, and two heads. But, at birth we are split in half, and then we spend the rest of our lives trying to our other half. I don't believe that there is only one person out there for me, in the sense that if I marry the "wrong person" I will never be happy. Any two people who obey God's word and put his principals into practice can learn to love each other. Of course, having a lot in common makes learning to love each other a lot easier Post Reply
View Profile History	What is your sexual fantasy??? Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 04:59 AM My "sexual fantasy" is to enjoy being blessed by God in finding my "sole"-mate, a gal who LOVES, LOVES, BAREFOOT LOVES to have her soles bare like I do and enjoy serving God and blessing Him and others artistically, and loving her "barefoot guy" husband in romantic, sexual, spiritual, emotional, and every way that is pleasing to God, that He created me and her to barefoot enjoy loving each other and Him in ... if you MUST know!!! :hearts::hearts::hearts: "GOTCHA!!!" indeed!!! :ROFL::ROFL::ROFL: Steve Post Reply

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