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hubbarddebra99

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what attracks you to a certain girl?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 11:56 AM

what attracts certain guys to certain girls? For example, Guys my age don't e-mail me, but guys 10 or 15 years younger do! I don't mind, I even like it! But why?

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what attracks you to a certain girl?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 12:03 PM

I've been told that my scent is intoxicating and that this makes it difficult for men to not want to be close to me. But guys can't smell me on here.

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what attracks you to a certain girl?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:48 PM

@pixy, your profile pic adds a nice effect to your post, because it looks like you're rolling your eyes while saying something that you would roll your eyes while saying (reading that just made me go ???).



Some things that I find attractive:

-a Christian

-Can hold at least a half-way decent conversation

-Good looking (at least, that I think is good looking)

-Doesn't need to be the center of attention

-not a flirt

-has a sense of humor

-around my age



Thats all I can think of right now.

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Tulip89

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Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 02:36 PM

I doubt I can help you out much, being a young buck and all, but I'll give it a go anyways.

First thing is that she's a girl. Call it gender discrimination if you want, but I'm only interested in hiring women for the position of "girlfriend." I'm a face guy, so a girl with gorgeous eyes and a great smile can catch my attention from across the room. Sundresses are a favorite of mine as far as clothing goes. I also tend to be much more drawn to outgoing, confident girls. None of that means anything if she isn't actively pursuing a stronger relationship with Christ and checking out theologically. Reformed is best, but if it's meant to be, I'm sure she'll convert! She's gotta have a sense of humor, as well as think I'm funny. Liking college football, being up for backpacking or camping, and other outdoorsy activities are huge plusses. Sharing an interest in music or food sounds trivial, but if she's gonna constantly be getting onto me for eating meat or hates country music, it isn't very likely to work out. I'm an amateur country music critic and songwriter, so I wouldn't appreciate being told my music is bad. If she gets far enough to meet my family, they've gotta like her too. After all, if my family doesn't like her, what sense does it make to make her family?

The short list? She's gotta like Jesus, I've gotta like being around her, and I've gotta like looking at her.

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what attracks you to a certain girl?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 04:41 PM

Hubbard, there is no single answer to your question. Some guys like younger women; some guys like older women; some guys look for intelligence; some guys look for red hair. It all really depends on what the guy is looking for.

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what attracks you to a certain girl?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 07:21 PM

Kaynine22 - Do you want her to flirt with you?



Tulip - Have you ever listened to sermons/read book by Mark Driscoll? I believe he is big on reforation

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Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 07:53 PM

DEEDEE72 - I'm not sure if I would want her to flirt with me. If she is the type to flirt with a lot of guys with no real purpose in mind, then no, because then I would feel like a number, if you will. If she doesn't flirt with anyone unless she is actually attracted to that person, then probably yes.

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Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 08:29 PM

@Tulip I thought you wanted a woman who would like your motorcycle.



Each person is diferent.



Physical attraction aside, and I have a wide range when it comes down to it Im looking for my Jesus. :)

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Tulip89

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Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 09:44 PM

Well that goes without saying. Interestingly enough, all women like my motorcycle!

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Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 09:28 AM

I thought of one more:



She should practice good hygeine!

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Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 10:11 AM

what attracts me to guys : I love cocky confident super cocky guys! I don't know why, I guess because my dad is cocky, and so was my ex "the love of my life"

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