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Posted : 18 Sep, 2010 08:58 PM

Are men genuinely interested in remaining pure until marriage, if they are courting? I am a born again Christian now and am trying to live a life that is holy and pleasing to God...I am waiting for my husband--but are men put off by women who are genuinely waiting? I don't believe in "try before you buy"....since, why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free????

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Jaywar

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Posted : 18 Sep, 2010 09:33 PM

It honestly depends on the guy.I think Paul said it best "the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak."



I know I tried. I don't know about the other guys. I can't vouch for them.

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Posted : 18 Sep, 2010 09:47 PM

I'm trying. Sure is hard sometimes though.



:peace::peace:

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Posted : 18 Sep, 2010 10:42 PM

sounds good

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Posted : 18 Sep, 2010 11:46 PM

There are still guys out there who desire to wait until marriage even in this sex-fixated society. I am one of them. Some days are easier than others to handle though.

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Posted : 19 Sep, 2010 12:46 AM

I am not a guy but I know a bunch of fellows who are very much interested in NOT having sex before marriage (even if they aren't virgins any more b/c of their doings in the past).

Do not get discouraged sister!!!!!!!!! sex is a beautiful thing to offer one another when married. Do not compromise! 'Thou shalt not commit adultery' - remember? and 'I desire to do your will, O my God; your law is within my heart' Ps 40:8 NIV. Ask yourself if any guy can be a real Christian if he does not have this desire to stay pure...

God bless all willing trying struggling falling and raising up again!

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SilverFire

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Posted : 19 Sep, 2010 04:47 AM

There are. I am one of them. I really couldn't live with myself if I gave it up before the wedding night.

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Posted : 19 Sep, 2010 09:08 AM

I'd guess 1/20 in a random sample across the US. Then again, he'd probably be the only actual Christian in the bunch too. As I'm sure you've figured out, the number of people claiming to be Christians is WAAAAAY higher than people who have a relationship with Christ.

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Posted : 19 Sep, 2010 10:53 AM

nice to hear of a godly man living as the Lord has called him to be! sounds like you are a great catch! i hope God blesses you with the desire of your heart!:angel:

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wademach1977

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Posted : 19 Sep, 2010 12:37 PM

If you want to remain pure. I would be proud of it and not worry what some guys think. God will bless you for it.

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Posted : 22 Sep, 2010 11:44 AM

Don't worry about what other people think. There are two big things to remeber about staying pure until you meet that someone you will be with forever. 1. There are alot of std around anymore and its just not worth taking a chance on catching something from someone you won't be with 5 years down the road. 2. Its not worth getting pregnant(or getting someone pregnant) if you are not going to be together and it wouldnt be fair to the kid either.

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