Author	Thread: Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date?
Christinia2 View Profile History	Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date? Posted : 12 Sep, 2010 04:52 PM Why is it so hard to find a true, honest and Christian man that wants to date and develop an good relationship with a good women?? You men use this site cos it is free......is that it?? I am so tired of meeting men on here that say they are Christians and looking for a honest relationship with a lady and that they aren't like those other guys, whom play games, lie and/or have other motives in mind, but when it comes right down to it they do end up wanting just about the same things!! Am I the only lady on this site that find this to be a problem?? If a person is just using this site cos it is free and to get his own personal needs, wants and desires meet.........than be up-front and honest about it..........that way we can decide for ourselves if we want to further our time with you or not. Not spend so much time chatting and even talking over the phone thinking I might be developing a true, honest, Christian based friendship, poss. more with a man that isn't really a man true to his word and believes/values. Christinia2 ~ Christinia2 Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date? Posted : 12 Sep, 2010 04:57 PM I'm sure you've seen this in real life, but strong Christians are few and far between, despite many people identifying as Christian. Finding ones in that small group who you click with well enough to date is incredibly hard. I think a lot of the blame goes to churches that teach an easy, watered down part-gospel. If the Gospel was being boldly preached in every church every week, it would drive out the pretenders before long. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date? Posted : 12 Sep, 2010 05:41 PM Agree with Tulip. Plus, do remember that most Christians u meet online are not 100% true believers, some are very faaar from Christ alike. My Jesus doesn't act that way. The funny thing was, I didn't realize that my account on one of the non christian dating site were still active until yesterday I found the notification email on my spam folder. Then I decided to check on the site and talked to a guy, tho the talk was just a light conversation we did talk for an hour. As far as I can remember, I can't recall on non dating site where I just talked to myself aka got "ignored". At least he respected me and did reply to me. I never heard any problem of people are not replying until I joined the site for the second time, and found the same problem goes around here and there in the forum. Any chance that those people on non dating site seem "nicer" than people on this site? Let's think.. And evaluate lol Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date? Posted : 12 Sep, 2010 07:20 PM Unfortunatley Tulip is right. We live in a day and age where few who claim the name of Christ actually walk with Him dailey. Its actually rather heart breaking, because it makes a finding someone very difficult...but as a wise sister in Christ said, God is powerful enough to give us good gifts. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date? Posted : 12 Sep, 2010 07:38 PM I was on a non christian dating site awhile back and I got so much mail...if I looked at someones profile, they were sending me mail. Not here :) the men here are scary, I dunno why. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date? Posted : 13 Sep, 2010 12:13 AM Tulip, Jesuslovesyou, Rabbit, & River, Great input!!! I also think we may put way to much expectation on the people in "Christian" sites vs "Non-Christian" sites. I know for me I have had several experiences such as yours and have had my heart broken a couple of times from "Christian" men here. I finally resolved to building friendships via the forums and if God wanted me to meet "The One" here He would have to completely orchestrate it, and I in the mean time enjoy the friendships He's allowing me to make (male & female) here and trust He ha the rest taken care of as He only wants the very best for me(his children.) To my pleasant surprise (as I truly did not expect to meet "him") He has indeed blessed my life with a very special godly man I met here. I'm trusting Him to continue to guide each step of this relationship. Weather God has the man or woman for each of us here on CDFF we just need to place our full trust and fix our eyes on Him. Trust God at His word as He truly does want the very best for His children. He loves us with a pure unconditional perfect never ending love. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date? Posted : 13 Sep, 2010 03:34 AM then you should use the site as it is intended, as a way to meet more people. Dating is a way you find out about people, and there is going to be a many times where you run into odd cats, bad cats, or just something crazy. There will also be ones that you run into that will be pretty awsome as well. Once you give up hope is the only time that anything will end though, so keep up the faith. (2 cents from the other side) Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date? Posted : 13 Sep, 2010 08:03 PM That's why men here don't send mail. We know we're scary and we're respecting your fear of us. In fact, we get more and more powerful when we know we're fear-inducing. Rahhrrr! I just went up a level! :ROFL: Seriously, sending email doesn't work. That's why we don't bother. Post Reply
woman_of_integrity View Profile History	Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date? Posted : 13 Sep, 2010 10:53 PM I share your frustration. It's not so much just men on this site, but men in general who claim to be Christians. They know that Christian women are looking for a Christian man, so they will say anything to get their attention but the only goal is to date as many women as they can. Overall, most people I know who date the world's way have partners they are happy with while the most wonderful of the Christian women I know are still single. My belief is that God only blesses the prodigals and doesn't care as much about the rest of us. I wish it worked differently, but unfortunately it doesn't. Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date? Posted : 14 Sep, 2010 12:05 AM I'm confused...I know that there are several "Christian" men out there that aren't Christian but maybe the reason some of you women keep getting hurt is because you move too quickly into a relationship before testing a man's faith and beliefs. I know of several Christian women that have formed relationships with non-Christian men and some of them are happy and some of them aren't...yet both continue with their relationships. I on the other hand...know that I AM a true Christian man and yet I have had trouble connecting with or "catching the eye" of Christian women...women in general. There are several single men on here who I'm sure are true Christian men...I don't think it's fair to assume that there are no true Christian men or that there are so few that its impossible to find one...I think perhaps either your concept of a true Christian man is too demanding or when you see a true Christian man you find ways of "not" being attracted to them outside of being just friends. I have been single my whole life and yes I've not taken to many chances, but I haven't been approached either...as a true Christian man, if that is a desireable trait. Surely some Christian woman would have by now shown interest. I just think that this world puts too much emphasis on things that clould all people's minds...Christian and non-christian alike to where we look for that perfect sculpted body with the sensituve yet rough/tough personality...things that don't always coincide with a true Christian...Ladies just know that its not just you having trouble finding a true Christian. Post Reply
honeydip View Profile History	Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date? Posted : 2 Jun, 2013 06:35 AM its so hard to find a true christian guy its seems some chrsitian guys are attarcted to ladies who are not really commited to them...ladies whe just wants sex and money from them...ladies who are easy to get and just wants fun...Guys cant handle a real Godly woman Post Reply

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