Author	Thread: fat girls
aurora846 View Profile History	fat girls Posted : 3 Jul, 2010 09:30 PM So, heres where the awkwardness begins for all you boys! *WOOT!* So, i keep wondering if guys are really just generally turned off by girls who are overweight? im not skinny, granted, God made me skinny boned so I should be thin, but because of life instinces I began to eat my feelings and emotions. Now, due to Gods grace and love I am working it out and am working on losing weight. But I still have guys say, "Youre so awesome, if you were thinner, or in great shape I would date you". That really sucks to hear, but whatever that makes them look stupid not me. But seriuosly, are guys so shallow that they wont even look at a bigger girl twice? I mean, im overweight but am pretty good lookin and have a really great personality so why do guys keep over looking me?> Just wondering... Sierra Post Reply
View Profile History	fat girls Posted : 3 Jul, 2010 10:12 PM really they say that?? hahahha Well im XL in size.. and i dont have problems with make some friends.. have a bf.. haha.. i guess it depends of your attitude... i dont know..you need to be sure of yourself..and if you feel yourself beautiful other will see you beauiful =) and God made you beautiful too.. God luck and i wish you find your soulmate! Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	fat girls Posted : 4 Jul, 2010 12:01 AM Sierra, I feel your pain. I am over weight and I think/feel that I'm a somewhat handsome guy yet I have yet to find a lady who finds me attractive enough to give me the chance to be more than just a "brother". I think that the whole concept of wanting someone thinner isn't JUST a guy thing but that it is pretty univeral in the world's society. I will turn 26 this month and have NEVER had a girlfriend and it seems the reason behind this is that women do not find me physically attractive. I have had many women tell me that I have a great personality and that I would make a great husband and father. However, they themselves are not interested. I find this to be extremely discouraging and it hurts my confidence. It makes no sense to me that on one hand I'm what "every girl is looking for" and on the other hand I'm "not their type". I know what your going through and KNOW that its not just a guy-to-woman thing but that it goes both ways. Post Reply
View Profile History	fat girls Posted : 4 Jul, 2010 05:45 PM i want to tell another thing.. and take this advice..both You're beautiful/handsome, the person who loves you, love you as you are, you just be such as you are, if that person does not love you, or doesnt not want to be with you, then the guy/girl is losing to experience something wonderful, you're not losing anything my both friends!, remember how important you are as a persons and our Father God doesnt wants you to any fool or silly, wants you for someone wonderful as you are. He loves us so much... so so so much... People can say many things about us, sometimes hurtful things about us, but the important thing is what God thinks of us Dad. =) God bless you all! Yoshua Post Reply
View Profile History	fat girls Posted : 4 Jul, 2010 05:48 PM but the important thing is what our Dad God thinks of us.. Post Reply
LincolnAdams View Profile History	fat girls Posted : 4 Jul, 2010 09:27 PM I would consider dating any size girl as long as they're not obese. There's plus sized, and then there's lumbering land whales that could give Godzilla a run for his money. I think I draw the line at the point where you stop looking like a woman and start to look more like a scientific experiment gone horribly wrong. Personally though I think women are far, FAR more judgmental of guys who are overweight than vice versa. I've noticed this in my observations wherever I go too. I always see guys with overweight girls, but I have yet, and I'm not kidding, YET to see a fat dude hand in hand with a girl, unless they were an older couple (middle aged to elderly). Indeed, I had a friend of mine who used to be really fat. Not a single girl noticed him until he lost maybe 75 pounds or so and got close to his original weight, then suddenly they were knocking down the door to get to him. So called Christians too. Don't you just love this world? :winksmile: Post Reply
klmartin62 View Profile History	fat girls Posted : 4 Jul, 2010 09:45 PM I have to disagree. I am a big guy (300+) and when I was on here before looking for someone, I didn't have any trouble. I would receive 2 or 3 emails a day from interested women. Beautiful Christian ladies that loved the Lord. I think much of it is confidence. I am confident in who I am in the Lord. I do not worry about what others think of me. I know my worth to my Father, and that translates to people being attracted to that confidence. Just for clarity, confidence cannot be faked. Relax, concentrate on your relationship with God, and all these things will be added. Love and grace, Leon Post Reply
chakal View Profile History	fat girls Posted : 5 Jul, 2010 04:22 AM Myself I have nothing against "big girls", maybe because of different culture...but I think as good Christians we should accept and love and respect other people as they are, as no one is perfect... so don't be sad, myself I find it nice to give a big hug to overweight people:applause: Post Reply
chakal View Profile History	fat girls Posted : 5 Jul, 2010 04:27 AM ...and honestly who what to hug a bunch of bones like me:ROFL: Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	fat girls Posted : 5 Jul, 2010 08:42 AM Lincoln Adams, I too have noticed that!!! I know of several larger woman with smaller guys but can't think of ONE larger guy with a smaller girl! Ladies...what do think about these observations?? Post Reply
View Profile History	fat girls Posted : 5 Jul, 2010 09:01 AM My only advice is to be honest and up front about your size. I met up with a very nice lady from this site and it took a me a minute to find her once we were both at the location agreed upon. She was at least 2x bigger than the pictures she had up. When people do that it feels a bit dishonest...I put up the least faltering picture I could find of myself...when I meet up with someone they are pleasantly surprised and most tell me so. If I took a weird angle pic or something trying to look "better" than I do it's a let down for you ladies. I�ve never dated anyone over weight but seems 2 me being honest upfront is they way to go. I don�t have any trouble finding dates�I have trouble finding beautiful Christian women who are on fire for God! READ Psalm 139 just my 2 cents...might only be worth 1/2 a cent though. Post Reply

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