Author	Thread: Sex in A Relationship
Admin	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 18 Apr, 2010 02:30 PM I have a question. In relationships you talk to get to know one another. If things work out the relationship will progress into something more. My problem is that I can NEVER get to that point because the question always comes up "Do/Have you had sex? My response is always and will always be no I really do want to wait till i'm married. There's nothing wrong with that but guys always stop talking to me after that? Why is that important for guys to have sex before marriage? Before some one says "Christian guys don't do that" They definatley do. I've had this experience way to much and I just want to know why this is? Am I the only one left in the World who wants to save it for marriage? Post Reply
View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 18 Apr, 2010 03:35 PM I am also someone who is waiting and saving sex for when I am married one day. You are not the only one, so do not feel worried. And even if you were, God would be definitely pleased by that. I am not saying that it is not easy to avoid having the temptation, but I believe that God wants all believers to keep within a marriage. We would be sinning if we did not. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 18 Apr, 2010 05:39 PM IDK y u r having problems, but the right bait attracts the right men and the wrong bait attracts only the wrong men. Post Reply
View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 18 Apr, 2010 05:59 PM I carry myself as a decent young ladyI believe the guy should always approach the girl I don't approach guys I never do, they always approach me. Post Reply
InHisHonor View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 18 Apr, 2010 06:09 PM To be honest Christian men don't do that. If a man says he is a Christian and engages in sex before he is married then I would definitely question whether he is really a Christian. You will know them by their fruits. Post Reply
View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 18 Apr, 2010 10:59 PM Those guys aren't worth your time, and they're not guys you'd want to be married to. Don't worry about it and move on =) Post Reply
View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 18 Apr, 2010 11:36 PM Ms. Pixy is right and so are the others. If a man cannot keep himself from the temptation of sex now...what do you think will happen if he is tempted after marriage by someone outside the marriage? I would say that perhaps 75 percent of men today would consider having premarital sex. That does not leave a whole lot...but what you have is Quality as opposed to Quantity. Hold out and run from those that are so weak. Blessings Steve God proves good to the man who passionately waits, to the woman who diligently seeks. It's a good thing to quietly Hope, quietly Hope for help from God. Lamentations 3: 25-26 Post Reply
SOS4EMAILFRIEND View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 19 Apr, 2010 02:22 AM I agree with all the above posts. I am afraid that there are a lot of men who do believe in God, read the bible, pray and go to church and even teach others how to live a christian live, but when it comes to sex before marriage, they just feel that this is perfectly alright. They think women are being prudish and connect their refusal to have sex before marriage with her family background (harsh house rules), fanatic church influence or even playing hard-to-get. Since this is a "ask a guy" thread. I think that some of the men should explain to their fellow gender why sex before marriage is so unchristian. Of course we women will move on every time it happens to us, but as it happens so very often, it really makes us wonder: what church leader has been educating these boys-wonder? Which leads me to another question. Are there other christians rules for men than for women? Post Reply
View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 19 Apr, 2010 06:38 AM just joined you all. I will voice non christian reasons to wait. Think of what you can catch, ouch. all kinds of sickness. trust- will they be running around after marriage. Fighting lovers often bring crime. sick stalkers should I cintinue.Dennis Post Reply
sparrowsong79 View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 19 Apr, 2010 08:14 AM Many will say in that day..."Lord, Lord...didn't we..." I often wonder how many on "Christian sites" will hear "Depart from Me..." A sad commentary on the modern church, isn't it? Post Reply
angel85 View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 19 Apr, 2010 05:02 PM Well girl for myself im not a virgin but when I got saved 3 yrs ago I gave up my old ways and told god that I know I cnt get my virginity bk but I cn get my dignity so I give you props and wish I still was. Not evryone on a CHRISTIAN website has a conviction about Fornication, but the bible does say that its wrong so the ones that blow you off arent the ones for you the bible also says nt to be unequally yoked... So keep it up god bless ya sis Post Reply

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