Author	Thread: Girl making the first move
eyebee View Profile History	Girl making the first move Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 09:39 PM Is it ok for a woman to make the first move? basically first in telling how much she likes him? How does a guy feels when girls makes the first move? Thanx in advance for ur reply and God bless. Post Reply
View Profile History	Girl making the first move Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 01:11 AM Eyebee... ...Welcome to The Forum. As to your question: I see nothing inherently wrong with the woman being the first to initiate a relationship by telling some man that she likes him. I only would caution as to "how" she does it. There are tried and tested ways for a woman to let a man know she is "interested" without seeming too forward -- then again...todays generation may have an entirely different outlook on this subject. My concern is (being a man and knowing how our simple minds work) that the fellow might get the "wrong" idea and think you an "easy" mark. So, what I want to say is it is all in the way or what you say. For instance: "I like the way you..." "I admire what you did..." "I Love your laugh..." "I think you're as handsome as Archimedes..." (SNicKer :laugh:) Post Reply
eyebee View Profile History	Girl making the first move Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 01:39 AM tnx for the advice esp the last line that will work most Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Girl making the first move Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 07:31 AM I met the guy I'm dating on a dating site (but not this site). He hadn't viewed my profile, but I saw his and liked it. I sent him a wink in hopes that he would look at my profile, and I figured if he liked it, he could take it from there. I guess I'm a bit old-fashioned, but it seems like once I make my interest known (either with a wink or short message online or with one of Arch's suggestions, which are pretty goods ones!), then it's up to the guy to decide if he's interested back. If he is, he can make the first "real" move...ie. long message, phone call, asking me out, etc. Anyway, so that I don't leave you hanging with my story...the guy contacted me the next day by sending me a long on-site email, and as they say "the rest is history!" We've been seeing each other for nearly three months now, and he still does the pursuing. I personally like that. It's nice to know that he thinks I'm a prize worth working for! :applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	Girl making the first move Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 09:27 AM In a 1960's John wayne movie called Hatari, the lady goes after John Wayne.She just walks up to him and ask him how he likes to kiss. Short or long? then she does both. :hearts: I think I would like that from a lady.Dennis :dancingp: Post Reply
View Profile History	Girl making the first move Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 09:27 AM dear eye, welcome to the forums.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Girl making the first move Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 09:45 AM Dennis, If some woman tried that with me...she would not get very far. I would not recomend that for you ladies. I don't think that represents your true nature and I would wonder how often you tried that with someone else. Now if it was Sandra Bullock (after she broke up with Jesse)...:glow: :dancingp: :yay: Post Reply
View Profile History	Girl making the first move Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 09:58 AM See Steve buddt it depends on who the lady is, as you said Sandra Bullock. :ROFL: I bet the ladies on here get a kick out of some of us guys. Dennis Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Girl making the first move Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 10:15 AM We sure do! Post Reply
View Profile History	Girl making the first move Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 02:54 PM uh yes...we do:applause: Post Reply
IamIsabel View Profile History	Girl making the first move Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 08:18 PM We're standing in line for you dgrimator! :waving: Post Reply

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