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How would you feel
Posted : 3 Mar, 2010 08:50 PM

about dating a Christian Woman that is dating other Christian men? If she was honest and upfront about dating other's would you keep dating her?

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 03:41 AM

Of Course!



As long as it was within reason. I mean if she is seeing so many that she loses track of them or needs to hand out nametags...then I am out of there! But no...it is really none of my business and as long as candor and honesty is being practiced between us, then I am fine with it.

Again, I don't need a report or to "hear" of any details. I would just want what is expected from anyone in a relationship...Honesty and Truthfulness.



So...how many are you dating? :rolleyes:



Just Kidding!!:laugh:

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 08:19 AM

dear folks, used to of been i wouldnt of cared at all.

but thats just it , i really didnt care..

now that i do care and am able to feel the love one can have for another .. i got alot of years worth of love to give to another now.. and i aint aimin to be giving my love away to someone who is out sharing hers with others...

so i wouldnt be interisted in them..

ole cattle

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 08:43 AM

Good Question. I don't mind if I'm dating a woman and she is dating someone else if the intent of the relationship is to date only. If I know that we are both looking for a serious relationship then I think that changes the picture a little bit. At some point the relationship has to move up or out and the other guys have to go or I have to go.



I'd like to take this to a slightly different place. What about someone you are "dating" on-line? Is there a point that you can make that an exclusive on-line relationship?



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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 12:12 PM

I'd like to take this to a slightly different place. What about someone you are "dating" on-line? Is there a point that you can make that an exclusive on-line relationship?



Thunder:



I wouldnt know being that I take dating as actually dating, communicating is what I think online is usually used for. If the relationship online moved in to actual contact in person then I would say the 2 figured it out from that point to the next. I am very seldom surprised of how other people can arrange things in their lives to work or not work.

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 12:26 PM

Arch



I know your just kidding and didnt ask for details lol but, I am going to state that I am a woman that is one on one. I take things one day at a time. I need space and time to get to know someone and I dont have them lined up at the door. lol



I think that it works for some and it is what it is to others, I thought I would have a little fun and at the same time see if I was missing something that I been doing vs what has been appearing to me.

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 01:39 PM

It depends on alot of things but i would back off some. Its like dang she gets to take her pick. Well i aint compeating for that.

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 01:45 PM

Arch I agree with you,pal. As long as the woman remembers my name.It is Dennis ladies, not Arch or Ole' Cattle.

Not even Thunder,ok.



:peace: Step right up ladies. :ROFL:





Do I have any takers?

Yes



No





maybe





How many dates can I have in one night?

Like in the movies hide the ladies in the same food joint. :party:



:eat: Now, I am living dangerously.

:prayingf: :prayingm: :dancingp:

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 02:05 PM

In my thinking when you get to the point of dating you have passed the friends stage and are trying to figure out if you would marry the person.



I don't think you could be "dating" several people and think that they are all worth marrying. If a girl is dating multiple guys then I wouldn't have any interest in being with her.

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 04:29 PM

I would never date a woman who was dating another man under any circumstances. To me, the word dating implies an exclusive relationship in which two people get to know each other on a level deeper than that of friendship. When a couple agrees to date, it's as though a seed of love is planted and the couple work together to cultivate it. The plant might wilt (the couple might break up), or it may grow tall and strong (marriage). If the couple reaches the marriage stage, then they work together to protect the plant until one person dies. I think if one tries to grow more than one plant at a time, one will end up with several smaller plants. I would rather have one large beautiful one. I think it's better to date one at a time, if one thinks one needs to. That way, one plant is given time to wilt and fade away before a new one springs up. All of the person's attention can then be given to the new plant so it can grow as large and strong as possible.

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 07:42 PM

dear folks, used to of been i wouldnt of cared at all.

but thats just it , i really didnt care..

now that i do care and am able to feel the love one can have for another .. i got alot of years worth of love to give to another now.. and i aint aimin to be giving my love away to someone who is out sharing hers with others...

so i wouldnt be interisted in them..



ole cattle





good point ...thanks :)

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