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Lvstigers

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Posted : 14 Feb, 2010 10:08 AM

I fail to understand why people on this site, in my case men, would add me as a favorite yet never send any messages. Why is this?

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Posted : 14 Feb, 2010 10:24 AM

Usually there is something keeping them from contacting you, maybe the age range or the smoking, drinking preference. That's the only reason I can think of, that way they can get your attention, hoping you will change your settings for them.



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Leon

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Posted : 14 Feb, 2010 10:29 AM

It could simply be that they add you to their favorite list in hopes that YOU will make contact with them. Kind of lame I know but its just a thought.

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Posted : 14 Feb, 2010 02:19 PM

I think the answer lies in the fact that most of these men have learned that when it comes to sending out a first contact email to the vast majority of women, even on a Christian site, that Jesus Christ himself could fall out of the sky, and send you a "hello", and you wouldn't bother to answer it because his sandals wouldn't have been BIRKENSTOCKS!!! :rolleyes:

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Posted : 14 Feb, 2010 02:24 PM

Gotcha Pt4....:rolleyes:



To klmartins point... I usually view profiles of those who've viewed me, and as I observed a pretty interesting profile and wanted to shoot a message to the viewer, but couldn't cause of the age restrictions. ( couple cases- my age was past the limits they had set). So I could see this point. Maybe the person saved you as favorite until you change your age restrictions so he could message you later. Just a thought.



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Posted : 14 Feb, 2010 05:09 PM

dear folks, i hate to agree with leon a little bit.. sometimes we would be hopin theyd change their age restrictions.. as lots of times youll be only a year or so off..

or as leon said maybe some of the restrictions one puts in their profile doent fit them.. after they get a chance to read it i mean.. some women want a fit man and hey im sure not the fit man i used to be a few years ago hehe..

thats just a preference and thats cool with me..



usually if i happen to see someone id like to talk with more by their looks.. and yes i do that .. ill put them in my favorites and when i have time ill go back and read the profile then.. and its then one may find certain things that makes us change our minds about whether we wanna write or not..



and piano hehe you sure made me chuckle..



also its very slow to take folks outa your favorites . very slow to do one at a time.. so i tend to just leave em there..

ole cattle

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Posted : 17 Feb, 2010 09:51 AM

Ah, well, if you don't play you won't win. What happened to the good old days when it was the man that was typically the one to initiate?

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Posted : 17 Feb, 2010 09:53 AM

Why could they not change their age limits?

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Posted : 17 Feb, 2010 10:05 AM

Cattleman, I'll have to double check their profiles...I guess I don't use that feature lol.



As for fit, it's more what's on the inside than the physical body itself as far as I'm concerned. As long as they aren't so unfit as to be a health risk. I've listed my body type as 'a few extra pounds' because I'm not so fit myself, but it's not to the point that it would cause major health problems. I think they should put a description on those body types, because I've seen some that also chose 'a few extra pounds' and from the pictures they are a bit beyond that point. I want someone who is able to take care of me....lol it's my turn :)



Don't mean to be mean.... :/ just honest.



Ah, and I'm rambling, once again.

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Posted : 17 Feb, 2010 10:06 AM

lol never mind, I do get a bit ditsy sometimes, I guess they'd have to change their birthdate. I may be a bit slow but it comes to me eventually.:dunce:

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Posted : 17 Feb, 2010 12:31 PM

sometimes I put a lady on my favs for future contact.Dennis

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