Author	Thread: Making the first move!!!!
Admin	Making the first move!!!! Posted : 27 Jan, 2010 06:34 PM So I was wondering from a guys perspective who do u think should make the first move??? I dont mean anything sexual buy asking this queston either bc im a firm believer in waiting untill ur married to engage in such activites.....anyways I am wondering things like who should call whom first and things of this nature??? Post Reply
View Profile History	Making the first move!!!! Posted : 27 Jan, 2010 08:46 PM Who should make the first move? Whoever wants to. Post Reply
View Profile History	Making the first move!!!! Posted : 27 Jan, 2010 11:50 PM exactly! after that begins all the fun eh? Post Reply
Randy54156 View Profile History	Making the first move!!!! Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 01:35 AM you recently went on a date with a nice guy...whom you met through a friend..."it" was the first time... What is "it" for the first time? sex? Post Reply
liv2luvudeeply View Profile History	Making the first move!!!! Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 06:09 AM I believe God created the man to be the pursuer and the woman to be the responder. I don't get offended by being pursued as a man, and I will most often respond, but after the initial contact gets the man's attention, I think ladies should wait for the man to pursue. It's his natural position and if he doesn't assume it after you get his attention, then he either has identity/development issues (he doesn't know what it is to be a man, or hasn't grown up yet) or he's "just not that into you". T Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	Making the first move!!!! Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 07:12 AM liv2luvudeeply... I like what you've said and agree with all of it! ~ GraceM Post Reply
View Profile History	Making the first move!!!! Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 08:59 AM dear randy, lids post read like this so recently i went on a date with a nice guy....i met him through a friend and it was the first time we had met in person..... my words here you should read all of the post on her profile, if youll click on it itll take you to where she finished the sentences on that post.. she said it was the first time theyd met in person.. she wasnt and isnt speaking of having sex. you really shouldnt be tryin to make this young lady appear like summin she isnt.. by sayin things like that. i appreciate your cooperation on this.. thanks ole cattle Post Reply
skinnywhiteboy View Profile History	Making the first move!!!! Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 12:17 PM Yo randy-really? Cattle, thanks for repeating what the young girl said. And Isn't this the age of Women's empowerment? Lids-If you like him, let him know. Cause guys wonder the very same thing. Just pursue him like you'd want to be pursued. Be genuine, and do it in a Christian manner. Post Reply
Randy54156 View Profile History	Making the first move!!!! Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 04:05 PM CATTLE...I did'nt know I could click onto the message to extend it. I merely thought that what shows on the forum, is the question. Sorry bout that. Post Reply
View Profile History	Making the first move!!!! Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 04:46 PM dear randy,,, my apologies to you as well.. my mistake.. as i can see now you was thinkin it was a question.. im very sorry bout that.. ole cattle Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Making the first move!!!! Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 06:18 PM I know this is "ask a guy"....but can I weigh in on this please? Pretty Please?? No objections? OK, I'll take that as a "yes!" :applause: As a girl, I'm not opposed to sending a short message or a wink to let a guy know I'm interested. I liken it to flirting with a guy that I might happen to meet in person...how would he know I'm interested if I don't show it somehow? But once I let him know, and if he's interested in me too, then I really like to be pursued. I want a man who can lead the family as the head of the household, and if he can't be man enough to take the lead and pursue me, then why do I think he might be man enough to be the head of the household? No, the relationship shouldn't be all one sided. I would expect to work hard at it too. But some things, like making that first phone call and initiating the first couple meetings, should not only be the man's responsibility, but it should be the man's PRIVILEGE and RIGHT. And that's the type of man I want. :hearts: OK, now you all know my opinion on the topic! Thanks guys! :waving: We now return to our regularly scheduled program, "Ask a guy"! Post Reply

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