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GraceMae

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Posted : 21 Jan, 2010 08:35 PM

What do women need to know about you men? What turns a man off?



Trying to change his behavior like demonstrating negative feelings? Not acknowledging what He does, or complaining about what he doesn�t do?



What would you like to share for the ladies?



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Posted : 21 Jan, 2010 10:14 PM

We don't need a mother and we don't need a friend. What we want and need in a mate is a mother and a friend.

That's what i think and how I'd describe it anyway. I could be wrong though. It's not like we have meetings.

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Posted : 21 Jan, 2010 10:59 PM

A few things that SOME women do to annoy men is

1.-get mad at us and give us the silent treatment & don't tell us what we did

2.-make a remark about how attractive someone is (a total stranger-usually another woman) and get upset if we inncently do the same-Boy I learned the hard way on that one!

3.-Ask us if "this dress makes me look fat" and expect an honest answer

4.- put themselves on a diet and expect her man to go along-even if he already has a 32" wasist and is so hungry his stomach is rubbing his backbone

5.- And we find her stash of Hershey Kisses or skittles

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Posted : 22 Jan, 2010 07:08 AM

dear folks, this man right here just really dont like a nagger.. to keep me happy just dont nag all the time hehe.

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Posted : 22 Jan, 2010 08:14 AM

I do not like a defiant woman.Who thinks love has limits.If things get hard for you she bails out.However,she expects you to remain loyal to her if things are hard for her.

I want someone to love me for who I am in the good and the bad.

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Posted : 22 Jan, 2010 10:56 AM

Personally, I want an equal. Someone who is sure of themselves, and strong in their beliefs and values. The type of woman that will actually stand up for and take care of themselves. There is something to be said for the "beauty of a delicate flower" But I'd rather have someone that can laugh it off when someone says something bad to her, or change her own tire when she gets a flat. I don't think I speak for most guys though.

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Posted : 22 Jan, 2010 11:06 AM

The biggest, or one of the biggest, things you can do to be more attractive: Be happy with yourself and perfectly willing to walk away. Once that starts to reverse though is when we start getting that tied down, dragged down, bored, irritated, stagnant feeling.

Also what I meant in my first comment: the respectability of a mother and the excitement of a cheerleader. I was kinda wierded out a little today for a while cuz i couldn't remember what i meant by that.

One other thing we do more of and that resonates with us i think is take risks. If you want to get our attention take a risk. :ribbit:

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Posted : 22 Jan, 2010 01:55 PM

Guys



This is interesting to read all of your comments. It just goes to show how unique we all are.

Remp...I have to bring up somethings you said (you know I love ya buddy...one "grunt" to another)...it may have been a Freudian Slip when you said you wanted a "Mother and a Friend". Many men marry a woman that reminds them of their Mother and then proceed to ruin the marriage by expecting her to be his mother.

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" Be happy with yourself and perfectly willing to walk away. Once that starts to reverse though is when we start getting that tied down, dragged down, bored, irritated, stagnant feeling."



Are you saying that you want someone that is "perfectly willing to walk away." As in leaving the relationship at the first sign of "choppy" waters? Did you see 'Titannic'?

People start getting that "...tied down, dragged down, bored, irritated, stagnant feeling."...usaually when they realize that they made a mistake.

I'm sure I misread or perhaps you meant something else.

We men are not much different then women in the sense that you will get a myriad of different answers as to what irritates us. At the end though...it really doesn't matter...Love is what Counts. If you fall in Love with her none of those things matter or are not negotiable or capable of being changed or corrected. LOVE is more important.

A conversation between a woman and her divorce attorney went somewhat like this:



Attorney -- "Why are you divorcing him?"

Woman -- "Well...he's never serious... always joking. Life is one big party for him!"

Attorny -- "I see...why did you marry him?"

Woman -- "Oh...he was never serious. He was always joking! It was one big party with him!"



Make sure you are Madly in Love with your spouse. Everything else will not matter...it will work itself out. Especially if God is in the Center of your Marriage.



What turns me off?



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Posted : 22 Jan, 2010 06:17 PM

Thanks for ALL your responsess Gents!! Me and the ladies are still with "eye's glued" for what other tips you've got to give us! :rolleyes::goofball: ~ GraceMae

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Posted : 22 Jan, 2010 07:46 PM

"Like-mindedness"....I hope I didn't just make up a word...but I hope for someone that has the same views of the world and life that I do...and that has a great laugh, lol. :goofball: Check, check, and check!:hearts: Check mate! :ROFL: Made myself laugh...



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Posted : 22 Jan, 2010 07:48 PM

Oh Mark... you're "Wowing" me! :goofball: Thank you!! You're blessing us all. ~ GraceMae

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