Author	Thread: Frustration
Admin	Frustration Posted : 17 Jan, 2010 03:22 AM Not trying to stir up any bitterness or cynicism, but for your overall experience on here, what's the most frustrating thing? Post Reply
liv2luvudeeply View Profile History	Frustration Posted : 17 Jan, 2010 06:28 AM Well to be specific to this site and not dating sites in general, I hate wasting time reading profiles and e-mailing ladies that haven't logged on in two or three years, and may never come back. Because the site is free, and it's in their best interest to have as many profiles as possible to attract new users, stale profiles are not deactivated or purged. On pay sites, you cancel your subscription, they yank your profile. That doesn't happen here...nature of the beast I guess? They should automatically de-activate profiles after some period of time of not logging in...like 6 mos. or a year. Then when you do log in again, you can always re-activate it. Free e-mail sites do this, so why not free dating sites? T Post Reply
View Profile History	Frustration Posted : 17 Jan, 2010 05:41 PM I have wondered if some of the people here really are christians. I have heard and read stories of converts that were sent to spy on us christians.Some of the liberal views and statements made have concerned me.Where is the commitment? Are those who have liberal views fakes,spies? Or do they just have no commitment? Dennis Post Reply
Spys_Like_Us View Profile History	Frustration Posted : 17 Jan, 2010 07:07 PM @ liv2luvudeeply I totally Agree. If not deleting the profile at least mark it as "Last Log In - Pre-Flood" Post Reply
View Profile History	Frustration Posted : 17 Jan, 2010 07:51 PM dear spies, welcome to the forums. ole cattle Post Reply
Paradisio15 View Profile History	Frustration Posted : 18 Jan, 2010 06:19 AM I agree, the most frustrating thing is easily the fact that there is no indicator of login dates aside from the last 24 hours. I think that and some sort of sorting feature is what is need the most. Otherwise, I would say lack of replies, but I typically do get replies from people who login and view the message. :rolleyes: Nothing really else comes to mind, I really like the site, just wish there were more (and current) members. Post Reply
View Profile History	Frustration Posted : 18 Jan, 2010 09:51 AM Yeah, i'd say multiple non-replies would be mine too. And how it makes you wonder things you'll probably never know the answer to, like 'why?'. Post Reply
View Profile History	Frustration Posted : 18 Jan, 2010 03:17 PM maybe they need to add a option to the site that if inactivate for a period of so many months, it deletes or inactivates a profile......? Post Reply
View Profile History	Frustration Posted : 18 Jan, 2010 06:48 PM My most frustrating thing is my ability to deal with frustration. I am getting better at it, but it still needs much work. Post Reply
View Profile History	Frustration Posted : 18 Jan, 2010 07:52 PM me too. sounds like that's another question in and of itself. Post Reply
real_1=me View Profile History	Frustration Posted : 19 Jan, 2010 01:02 PM I agree with liv2... They should kick the account into "inactive status" if the person has not logged in during a specific time frame. Another point, I find it frustating that guys that I never communicated (and still have not) with put me on their favorites. ? I am on a rediculous amount of favorites' list when, I only had contact with a couple and some of which, do not appear to be Christians. I feel like being on too many favorites' list might be scaring away a gentleman I may be interested in. Also, when I find someone appealing, they do not respond to my winks, message, or me adding the to my favorites yet, they are viewing my profile...????? Something wrong with my profile? Post Reply

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