Author	Thread: Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage?
Admin	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 9 Jan, 2010 07:06 PM I only date Christian guys, but I am having a hard time finding one who believes it is wrong to have premarital sex. I tell them that I would like to have a pure relationship with them, and they tell me that it is only "natural" to want each other sexually. Here's my question to you guys .... Are there any guys that have the same goal as me? The goal being to have a dating relationship with someone, fall in love with them, get married and then have sex? Or am I fighting a losing battle? Can't wait to hear the responses!!! Faithful2end Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 9 Jan, 2010 08:05 PM Hello faithful2end, I will start by saying that men are typically of the physical mindset, which I'm sure you know. I my self am a virgin and at 25 years old I often get laughs from people who are not Christians and surprisingly I get some pretty strange reactions by those who are Christians. To answer your question, if a guy was truly interested in you and more specifically interested in a building a relationship with you, he should have NO problem waiting til marriage to take that step to a physical-intimate relationship with you. If he really felt that God was directing you two to come together, why rush into something as sacred as that? Hope I have given some insight, but I'm just one man. Good Luck! Post Reply
liv2luvudeeply View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 9 Jan, 2010 08:06 PM While it is natural to have those desires, it's kinda right there in black and white in the book, and it's a joining of two souls and two spirits, not just a physical thing no matter what anyone says. Knowing that, it makes sense why God intended it only for marriage. T Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 9 Jan, 2010 08:58 PM dear faith, welcome to the forums. ole cattle Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 9 Jan, 2010 09:14 PM Hey faithful... I know this was for the guys to respond, but I needed to respond too. As I've walked in faith and trying to live by God's Word... being my body as a living sacrifice of abstinance in sex. Well, you have no idea... I'm in the same boat as you. Being 53 years young (my heart and spirit are 25!!) Other women, believers mind you, laugh at me behind my back at the thought of me trying to be pure in the midst of the world and all we see and could have if we would "just give in" and live the way the rest of the world chooses to do so commonly, seemingly right for todays time. Even at church, I see many eligible single men all the time. As I try to implement God's Word into daily application, particularly celibacy, I see the men who come into Christ and try, really try to be Godly men and have made the choice to try and walk God's way, with their bodies. But many of them come in as babes, new to the way and the walk. The men have intentions to walk rightiously, BUT we've got women and men too, that will live for God in every way EXCEPT when it comes to sex. That seems to be the exception to how they choose to live in obedience to the Word of God. And, for me, it's especially hard. Why would a man choose me, when he could so easily have a woman who would readily "give it up" instead of me. Now, I know the answer but, it's this kind of thing going on across the globe that can look bleak for me and many other ladies I'm sure, at times. Never the less, I, still, faithfully stand on my faith and remain diligent to what I know is truth. It's taken me many years to get the peace that I do have now. And I think it takes walking it through and seeing and self examining what it is that you believe and that is the test we must go through in our walk. Do not be discouraged. It's all apart of the plan to your being strenghened in all things of God for His best for you. Just sharing. GraceMae Post Reply
ian777 View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 9 Jan, 2010 10:05 PM Short answer: Yes - there are guys out there who believe adamantly about keeping sex within the bounds of marriage! I'm sorry you're having a tough time. Ian Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 10 Jan, 2010 07:46 AM Thanks. You have given me some encouragement that I greatly needed! Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 10 Jan, 2010 07:48 AM I do! I even warned the girl I'm dating..."if I ever try to have sex with you...it would mean I've lost my faith/gone crazy...and you should run away from me as fast as you can". "Sane Me " would not want her to stay with "Faithless Crazy Me"... :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 10 Jan, 2010 10:04 AM My x-wife was the only person I have had a relationship with. This is after marriage.Now that I am divoraced I will wait till I get married again. Another reason why is because I feel that those who wait will not wonder after marriage. Also, because of all the things you can catch.:ROFL: Post Reply
Agnos View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 10 Jan, 2010 11:23 AM Don, your answer is extraordinary! You are taking care of your girl even against your Faithless you... just in case... smart and loving man! Father on heaven... listen the way your kids follow your commandments!!! Faithful, I have read what those men of God had answered to you ... And I am so happy for you and for me... and for all of us, God's women... I hear once: Sex does not include Love, as a particle of sand does not include the Universe... and sex can fail... Love includes everything from God, including sex [which has been "created" by God... so, it is not a sin at all] and... if sex is submitted to Love, if it is done as part of Love's gifts... it is impossible for it to fail...!!! Love does not fail... God I Love... God does not fail... Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 10 Jan, 2010 11:57 AM THe dark one uses the things that we want the most...the things that give us the greatest pleasure...to ensare us and to doom us...to cause us to stumble and fall. The sexual act is probably one of it's greatest tools which it uses to trap us. If we cannot resist the temptation before we are married and are unable to show discipline before we are married...We Will not be Able to have discipline AFTER we are Married! Most likely someone will temp us when our marriage is going through rough times and we will FALL and severly damage our Faith and our Marriage. Withholding gratification only makes that first Union so much more Special and Exhilerating and a Wonderful Moment to always remember! Anticipation has a way of Sweetening Emotions and Hightening Senses and Increasing Gratification. It will be well worth the wait...it will be well worth the Respect you will show her and it will be well worth the reward! So...yes there are some men who who with great difficulty and with many cold showers and much praying wait...and wait...with Heart in hand and sometimes in their Throats...for that day...that night...for that Glorious moment when a woman gives herself completely and so sweetly to her Lover. (Whew!,,,where's that shower!) Post Reply

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