Author	Thread: How much does history matter?
downtoearth View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 29 Nov, 2009 06:10 PM Guys, when you are dating a girl how much about her history do you want to hear? If there is something that happened or that they did years ago (in relation to past relationships) that has no effect on your current relationship how much of that do you want/need to know about? Post Reply
View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 29 Nov, 2009 06:30 PM I personally dont want to hear about a girls past that i might date or am dating unless it directly affects our relationship ..i have found out in the past alot of the time when u go to deep into past relatinships either person has been in it causes pain alot of it comes from comparing yourself to the others persons x's and y they act differently with u then someone they dated before u..anyways thats my 2 cents Post Reply
View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 29 Nov, 2009 06:39 PM None. Post Reply
View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 29 Nov, 2009 06:50 PM Neat Question... There may be a time, deep in a relationship, to bring this up. The past that is. But, you need to grow to love each other first, so forgiveness, if needed, will be easy. Jut remember that when the Lord forgives us, our past is erased from his mind, and He only remembers when we bring it up. But, if direct questions are asked, then by all means answer if you really want to. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 29 Nov, 2009 08:36 PM I know this was an "ask a guy" question, but the same goes for girls knowing about a guy's history. I personally want to know if there has been a really serious relationship (meaning, engaged or married). I don't want to know all the gory details, but I do want to know how/why the relationship ended. It might make a difference in the way I approached a relationship with that guy. Post Reply
View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 29 Nov, 2009 09:14 PM dear folks, i dont mind hearin bout it at all. it helps me to unerstand where someones been and where they are now.. and if ya know that then it will help you in your relationship with them.. theres also little hints of what for you not to do if you wanna keep things goin good with the person as well. ole cattle Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 29 Nov, 2009 09:56 PM Depends on the history... :peace::peace: Post Reply
eric198375 View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 29 Nov, 2009 10:44 PM I think that we need to be careful about what parts of their "history" will render the relationship void. Ultimately if you are going to spend your life with this person you should know about the mistakes they made. I will expect future GFs to, at some point, ask the following questions. - How many past relationships - Engagements - Marriages - The V-Card discussion and any resulting pregnancies/abortions - Reason for ending relationships When asked, I will provide honest answers because she/they will be entitled to it. What I don't expect to share are little details that are irrelevant and perhaps even embarrassing. What isn't okay to do with "history" is use it for ammunition when you are angry. Assuming that we all act like adults most of the time, I'm sure that is not the intention. :-) Post Reply
View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 30 Nov, 2009 05:41 AM Well I think it depends,Like if you owe the I.R.S. tens of thousands of dollars,or you use to be a man,these might be some useful revelations,LOL In Christ Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 30 Nov, 2009 07:47 AM dear man, lol good points.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 30 Nov, 2009 03:22 PM Manofgod you are scary.It makes me think about not ever dating again.:ROFL: Seriously, god has forgiven them so we only need to talk about fixing those same errors.Then fix it.Dennis:dancingp: Post Reply

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