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Gentlemen, should a male be able to hit a woman if he is not defending himself?
Posted : 16 Oct, 2024 08:18 PM

Is the morally, legally or considered christian to you?

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Gentlemen, should a male be able to hit a woman if he is not defending himself?
Posted : 17 Oct, 2024 03:09 AM

Is that what happened to you?

Is that why you divorced?

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Gentlemen, should a male be able to hit a woman if he is not defending himself?
Posted : 17 Oct, 2024 07:33 AM

You may not like what the Bible says Deuteronomy 22:28-29.

Then most women have never liked 1 Peter 3:1.

So, it goes the way it goes. HIGH DIVORCE RATES

Too many the problems in marriage.

That's why the New Testament teaching is Matthew 19:10 and 1 Corinthians 7:1.

Even 1 Corinthians 7:40 Paul suggests that widows will be happier not marrying again.

Best to marry Christ and not to divorce him.

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Gentlemen, should a male be able to hit a woman if he is not defending himself?
Posted : 17 Oct, 2024 04:07 PM

I honestly don't believe I have seen anything in the scriptures that forbids striking a women. Now that doesn't mean I think men should do it just because there's nothing specifically mentioned. But I also believe that a women can do things that my very well deserve some mild corrective disciplinary action. Emphasis on the word mild.

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Gentlemen, should a male be able to hit a woman if he is not defending himself?
Posted : 17 Oct, 2024 06:21 PM

Do to others as you would have others do to you. (Matthew 7:12)

He who loves his wife loves himself. (Ephesians 5:28,33)

Spare the rod, spoil the child.

He that spareth his rod hateth his son, but he that loveth him chasteneth him in good season. (Proverbs 13:24)

Does this apply to misconduct of one's wife?

God may be even more harsh.

Numbers 12:8-15

Why then were you not afraid to speak against my servant Moses?” 9 The anger of the Lord burned against them, and he left them. 10 When the cloud lifted from above the tent, Miriam’s skin was leprous—it became as white as snow. Aaron turned toward her and saw that she had a defiling skin disease, 11 and he said to Moses, “Please, my lord, I ask you not to hold against us the sin we have so foolishly committed. 12 Do not let her be like a stillborn infant coming from its mother’s womb with its flesh half eaten away.” 13 So Moses cried out to the Lord, “Please, God, heal her!” 14 The Lord replied to Moses, “If her father had spit in her face, would she not have been in disgrace for seven days? Confine her outside the camp for seven days; after that she can be brought back.” 15 So Miriam was confined outside the camp for seven days, and the people did not move on till she was brought back.

Will you divorce God?

How about "Should a woman be able to hit a man if she is not defending herself?"

Or "Should a person be able to hit another person other than in self-defense?"

Some women should be in jail and some men should be in jail. But there a crimes that people commit and they do not end in jail. They get away with it.

It seems a profiling question.

It assumes that a man is the aggressor and that woman is the victim. In some cases, that is true.

Do you work with Domestic Violence Groups?

They like to profile. Men are the aggressors. Women are the victims.

I think men have been the victim for some time.

Guilty until proven innocent!

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Gentlemen, should a male be able to hit a woman if he is not defending himself?
Posted : 17 Oct, 2024 07:52 PM

Men more often then not tolerate physical abuse from a woman. I was one of them. In the last incidence of it I was standing outside when I was hit over the head with an object by her. At that point I picked up the object and rather than take my anger out on her I put it through the windshield of her car. She called the POPO and despite the physical evidence of the attack on me and nothing on her I went to jail for domestic violence.

Them were some good times.

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Gentlemen, should a male be able to hit a woman if he is not defending himself?
Posted : 17 Oct, 2024 08:40 PM

I had a similar experience.

The mother of my children attacked me multiple times. Hitting me between the legs, chocking me. The first time I held her in self-defense for all the times she attacked me, she made it a 911 call and I went to jail when she was the one who attacked me. I didn't see my kids for seven months. Good the cops know what to do in these instances.

Guilty before proven innocent.

Cops automatically favor the woman. They are taught that.

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Gentlemen, should a male be able to hit a woman if he is not defending himself?
Posted : 18 Oct, 2024 08:39 AM

Before and during my 28 year marriage I never had to deal with such a crazy woman. You could call her my rebound relationship. But my divorce and having to deal with the violence and favoritism that government plays when it comes to women, is the main reason I set out to learn more as to why things have gotten to where they are.

The main conclusion I have come to is women have been given power that they're ill equipped mentally & emotionally to handle. God never intended them to have it and I believe that with women we are somewhere between the quote "Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely" .

More than likely if I had given my rebound partner a good slap after she hit me the first time she would not have raised her hand to me again. But I didn't hit back because I knew I would end up in jail and she knew she could get away with it. I just didn't realize that I would end up in jail anyway. Had I known that I would have called the POPO the first time it happened and sat back and watched her go to jail.

I guess in the end I can chalk it up to a lesson learned.

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Gentlemen, should a male be able to hit a woman if he is not defending himself?
Posted : 18 Oct, 2024 10:24 AM

Do you mean "Before and AFTER" ? "your 28-year marriage"?

You wrote "Before and during"

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Gentlemen, should a male be able to hit a woman if he is not defending himself?
Posted : 18 Oct, 2024 10:30 AM

Yes, it is an unequal system. And no one follows the Bible. And women are not held to account.

Men are guilty before proven innocent.

The system is partial.

Just being accused, a man will go to jail.

Cops are less likely to put a woman in jail.

My kids know who they want to be with.

My kids know who has most provided for them.

My kids see and know. They observe.

Now days, people need everything recorded to go against the profiling.

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Gentlemen, should a male be able to hit a woman if he is not defending himself?
Posted : 18 Oct, 2024 10:31 AM

Yes I did mean before and during because it wasn't until after my divorce that I first encountered a relationship where the women was violent towards me.

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