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Iridescent

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Posted : 6 Apr, 2024 04:19 PM

What does long term relationship mean to you? Just not ready for marriage, but still striving toward it? Because, why would an average genuine Christian man (or woman just date a man) want to "just" date a woman without desiring a sexually allowable relationship eventually..

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Posted : 7 Apr, 2024 07:40 PM

Otherwise, I would think they'd just say they're looking for a date, and date many different people before they got too close, which a woman friend of mine does. Looking for a friend to me means just messaging someone. Too long of a longterm

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Posted : 7 Apr, 2024 07:42 PM

testing

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Handyman62

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Posted : 8 Apr, 2024 08:46 AM

When you are talking about long term relationships you need to clearly define what that is. Dating should not have to be long term if the goal is to become one flesh for a lifetime. If people took to heart what Gods word teaches them about what is appropriate behavior, then finding and staying with a mate would be a piece of cake.



I see that you include both men and women in what I would call "serial dating." Serial dating is mostly a modern female phenomenon. The reason why it's almost exclusively a female thing is they are the ones who have all the dating power and most males are invisible to most females. Men may be the one's who predominately seek dates from women. It's women who decide to accept or reject. Women also have a laundry list of reasons whether they want to date or continue to date a man and won't hesitate to move on to the next guy.



I can't emphasize enough how lopsided dating is. The vast majority of men are literally invisible to the vast majority of women. That "phenomenon" has mainly been brought about by the Satan inspired feminism and social media. What it has done is given women power that God didn't delineate to them which has overinflated their egos. Now the majority of women think they are above the majority of men. So now even overweight unattractive women think they deserve a 6 foot tall, 6 pack abs, 6 figure income man (666 man). I understand the desire to have the perfect specimen as a mate. But women need learn to live in reality.

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Posted : 10 Apr, 2024 11:48 AM

Long term relationship likely has many different definitions for various persons.

For me, it indicates I would not want to rush into marriage or a romantic relationship. I'd prefer developing a relationship slowly over time if common goals, interests, and morals exist.

But I'm happy being single and celibate. My definition only applies to me. Each person is different.

If in doubt, ask a particular person what the term means to them.

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Moonlight7

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Posted : 11 Apr, 2024 07:12 AM

Longterm relationship does not always mean marriage many on dating sites has had that and also had children and Never got married.

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Jayzeee

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Posted : 11 Apr, 2024 07:22 AM

And many on dating sites had children in marriage and are now divorced…:-)

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Jayzeee

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Posted : 11 Apr, 2024 07:27 AM

I’ll pass on the relationship advice from those who didn’t have a successful marriage…:-)

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Moonlight7

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Posted : 11 Apr, 2024 10:42 AM

Many will never meet a Spouse when they so picky.

Single maybe better for those people.

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Moonlight7

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Posted : 11 Apr, 2024 10:43 AM

Longterm or short term relationships are still just relationships. No marriage.

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Handyman62

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Posted : 11 Apr, 2024 11:26 AM

Moonbeam please enlighten everybody and give some examples of men being picky about women? You claim it but never back it up with anything.

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