Author	Thread: I need a guy's perspective, please.....
leilani View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 3 Oct, 2009 08:29 PM My question is.....when a guy views me, but then doesn't message me - does that mean he's not interested? I remember reading one's guys profile that says he's shy and he wanted the woman to message him if she's interested. Is this how a lot of guys think? Do they want the woman to view them and/or message them if she's interested? Or if he doesn't message me - should I take it that he's not interested? This is all very new to me - not used to this at all. Thanks! Post Reply
View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 3 Oct, 2009 09:36 PM dear lelani , welcome to the forums.. and id say its not always cause he may not be interisted.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 4 Oct, 2009 06:58 PM It may be that he sees too many differances for there to be a connection.Such as you live in Washington and he in New York and neither of you want to relocate.Maybe he's just quickly browsing and doesnt have time to connect right now.But I think if you are interested let him know. Post Reply
View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 4 Oct, 2009 07:38 PM Me personally, If I veiw a profile I am generally interested cause when your browsing is shows part of your "about me"section, If I dont reply I either think we wouldnt be a good match or I am in a hurry and your about me is too long to thouroughly read at the moment. If your interested I'd say send a wink to reming him to message you lol God Bless Josh Post Reply
View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 4 Oct, 2009 11:02 PM I agree with all above... but a shy guy like me might think you're too good for him :). If you like some guy's profile and he visited you without messaging you, send him a wink. He would reply if interested. Post Reply
leilani View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 5 Oct, 2009 09:25 AM Thanks guys! This is helpful and encouraging. Post Reply
View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 5 Oct, 2009 11:33 PM I have read alot of profiles cause I want to knw that persons requirement and the pictures and a snap paragraph doesnt tell all. There was some profiles i likes but when i got to the bottom she was looking for someone who was out side of her age requirement. phil Post Reply
TaxMan View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 6 Oct, 2009 08:04 AM When you see someone in your "Viewed Me," area, the proper action is as follows: Click each profile. Decide who, if any, interest you. Message them. -David. Post Reply
View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 7 Oct, 2009 01:50 PM No not at all in my case it is the distance : ( Post Reply
View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 7 Oct, 2009 06:08 PM Everyone is different. I would be rather humbled that a woman would contact me. I do view a lot of profiles here. Even though I do a Search with my preferences - when I don't get many who fit I do tend to look around. When I find they are outside my preferences I move on, I don't comment. I will admit to deleting Winks or Messages from those I'm not interested in. After reading around here, on my first time looking around, I will respond to every one sent my way from now on. It takes times. Patience - the search is not about numbers, it's about finding the ONE that God intends for you! God bless, Lloyd Post Reply
View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 11 Oct, 2009 05:01 PM Personally, see a lot of profiles that seem to be "out of my league", so I won't bother sending a message. If I get a message from HER, then I'm usually a lot more comfortable making a move. Just because a guy views your profile and doesn't message back, it doesn't mean he's not interested. Maybe just a little shy. Post Reply

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