Author	Thread: Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type?
Admin	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 24 Oct, 2017 01:27 PM I've been on here for many years. It's true sometimes you don't know a person is your type until you get to know them. But there is some definite things we are not wanting in a companion. Anyways usually when I respond sorry you are not my type guys usually say something hurtful then block me. Instead of saying something like ok thank you for letting me know God bless. I get threats.. like this particular message. "after reading your profile i see that your going to be single for the rest of your life, cursed by the LORD in lonely nursing home & dying in a empty shallow grave!... GOD opposes the proud but gives Grace to the humble. {James 6:4} Pride goes before destruction, And a haughty spirit before a fall. {Proverbs 16:18}" I did report him so I hope other ladies don't have to deal with this. Anyways just don't understand why some guys on here are like this. Also if you are wondering why we don't reply back to you if you are not our type it's because theres too many guys like this on here and we just don't want to deal with it anymore. Oddly enough you won't get chewed out for not replying it's only when you tell the truth about how you feel. Post Reply
R123 View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 24 Oct, 2017 02:35 PM The short answer is their pride is hurt - which is indicated by the message mentioning pride, trying to make you the proud one. I'm not sure how "dying in a empty shallow grave" works! Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 24 Oct, 2017 11:52 PM Because they are hippocrites, they can have "tastes" but the woman they want cannot. Connected to that it might just be that they emotionally invested more than they should have and am reacting childishly and slightly hurt. Also it might be that they approached you initially because they thought you an easy "mark" and am shocked that you can even THINK that THEY are not good enough for someone as lowly as you... yes some people get pathetic enough to think like that. Post Reply
R123 View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 25 Oct, 2017 07:06 AM "because they thought you an easy "mark" and am shocked that you can even THINK that THEY are not good enough for someone as lowly as you" The 'am' seems like a freudian slip? :-) Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 25 Oct, 2017 07:59 AM nope, my mind is just chaos and sometimes noise slips through.... also english is not my first language and I have various thought about how neadlessly complicated it is but that's besides the point. Aside from that I can easily slip into being devils advocate and explaining why people do what they do as if I were them, I have a kind of empathy (not to be confused with sympathy) for darkness. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 25 Oct, 2017 10:32 AM Ah so those guys will most likely be prideful and hypocrites. I just there's was a better way of figuring out which ones are like this so I don't message them at all. As for the easy mark thing. I'm not sure if you are implying that I look easy or that I look desperate. Lol either way I do believe that some guys would see me as them. But ehh I don't care I know they will ultimately think what they want to think. Thank you guys very for answering my question. ^-^ Post Reply
Ocean17 View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 30 Oct, 2017 08:15 PM Hi Spooky, I hope you don't mind my adding a comment. I've been winked (?) by someone twice. He states he is separated. I hope he doesn't question why I don't reply....not my type. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 31 Oct, 2017 10:54 AM I was having a bad day...sorry Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 31 Oct, 2017 10:57 AM humour aside, if your thumb hurts from hammering nails it's really rather sore, repeated blows to the very same spot are almost to much to endure, it's a bit like rejection really, you seem normal until someone hits that spot... Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 1 Nov, 2017 05:03 AM I have been chewed out for not replying... and that reinforces my theory that silence is better than a negative response. Sometimes, I would just rather not engage in conversation when I know it cannot go anywhere. Online dating opens you up to a lot of rejection, as well as opportunities to meet people. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 7 Nov, 2017 10:31 AM Rejection still hurts .. so i dont rly find it surprising that rejected ppl might wanna try to hurt u back.. Do u really expect bread after throwing a stone? Post Reply

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