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KEEPMELORD

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What's wrong with me?
Posted : 8 Sep, 2014 01:29 PM

Is there anyone out there for me?



There is a guy I met here and we used to chatted, he did like me and I do like him, but he said distance is a big problem. So now he had a gf but I still congrats him though I felt little bit sad.



And now there is a new guy I like but I guess he doesn't like me.



I am just curious. Is there still chance a man could like me?(sigh)

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CuriousGeorge

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Posted : 8 Sep, 2014 09:09 PM

nothing wrong with you. online dating doesn't work

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1mountain

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Posted : 10 Sep, 2014 10:42 PM

You don't smoke or drink. lol no just kidding there. I love your profile headline by the way, I feel very much the same. I've wondered rather often if my Eve is looking for me, and if not why she isn't. Also I was moved by your conversion story, I have another friend in another country with a similar one. She was disowned by her parents and all her friends as well and kicked out of her home.

Distance is an understandable reason but if he wasn't willing to go the distance and visit your beautiful country at least for a vacation he wasn't the right one for you. Say God bless and move on is my suggestion. Am sure there is a great guy who will love you for you, it's just a matter of waiting for him to realize that he's looking for a girl like you, or for him to start looking for you or just happen to find you. None of us know how it will happen that our love will come into our life, we only know that we are lonely. God bless am sure he should come along and I hope with you that it's sooner rather than later. Here is a neat love story film to watch while you wait.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ZM-8VsJq4U

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KEEPMELORD

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Posted : 11 Sep, 2014 05:18 AM

That is a nice words of yours. Thank you and yes you right it is only a matter of waiting and God had someone for each of us.

Thank you for your encouraging words.



God bless

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arin221

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Posted : 11 Sep, 2014 06:20 AM

Nothing is wrong with you, just don't take this online stuff too seriously. I wouldn't recommend you to rely your hopes and dreams on those guys whom you have never seen in real life, it can be just an illusion, not love.

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Posted : 11 Sep, 2014 09:36 PM

Agreed with you on what you said Arin without meeting in person one should be hesitant to invest one's emotions. I have a friend who did that, with what I think is the wrong guy; there are lots of red flags that he is a very bad choice and that she will end up hurt when the relationship ends. However in her desire to love someone by the time I pointed it out she was already emotionally invested in him. There are a lot of things you can only tell in person like chemistry and true personality.

This brings to mind just what a funny creature we humans are. We are born with an innate desire to believe in a higher power or god. We are born with a desire to love, with the exception of sociopaths. We are born with empathy and sympathy, and with an inablility to be alone. When we are forced to be alone for long enough we anthropomorphise creatures or objects so we will not be alone any more. So strong, so durable, and yet so weak.

By the way Arin I couldn't send you a message, because of your profile settings but I wanted to get in touch with you. I also like some conspiracy theories and know of a few that might amuse you. Send me a message if you like and I'll share them with you.

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Posted : 19 Sep, 2014 11:36 AM

wait upon the Lord. God made you beautiful and for His Glory. You are some lucky guy's rib so hang in there he will find you soon.

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Posted : 29 Sep, 2014 10:35 AM

Nothing is wrong with you. I'm sure god has some one in store with you. I hope you find him. :D

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Posted : 29 Sep, 2014 01:43 PM

I don't think anything is wrong with you.

You just have to be extra careful when it comes to online dating.

I did it in the past with long distance and he wasn't the right one for me.

So as for now I am giving this online dating site a shot.

But with caution.



Just be careful.





Anna

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Posted : 1 Oct, 2014 06:52 PM

What is wrong with you is that you asked a question that (deep down) you know the answer to.



Looking for a reassurance that you will have a partner someday? We can all be positive about that but nobody knows the future, so dot dot dot.



Dot.

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Posted : 17 Jan, 2015 07:11 AM

lol...

how many times i asked this question to myself..

but then God has the best plan always.... he just wants me to enjoy him fully.. :) there's nothing wrong with us..we just not settle for less but God's best... :glow:

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