Author	Thread: Overweight women
redforHim View Profile History	Overweight women Posted : 30 Jul, 2014 06:24 PM Does size matter to a guy? What will make a guy overlook a woman's weight issue? Post Reply
flyby View Profile History	Overweight women Posted : 30 Jul, 2014 06:49 PM Nothing! If its an issue move on but know this what some women call overweight some men call perfect! Post Reply
View Profile History	Overweight women Posted : 31 Jul, 2014 02:27 AM There are hundreds of websites dedicated to fat acceptance and fat worship. Many men like "BBW" and even more "chubby" i.e. between slightly overweight up to almost obese. Sure, the majority don't but many men might find an overweight woman attractive and desirable. But, is there any reason why your weight has to stay the same? What if a fat guy messaged you? Would you delete his message and ignore it? Would you accept a fat guy but expect him to lose weight? Would you want him to encourage you to lose weight? Personality is more important anyway. :waving: Post Reply
View Profile History	Overweight women Posted : 31 Jul, 2014 11:46 PM Depends on the guy, I myself have a slight phobia of seeing fat woman naked... That said though there is actually overweight and thinking you are overweight when you are merely a bit plump. Nothing wrong with giving a man something to hold on to and if I can see most of a woman's bones I'm typically too scared to touch her in case I accidentally break something... Post Reply
TravisjustTravis View Profile History	Overweight women Posted : 1 Aug, 2014 02:10 PM I think that it is true that if a guy has problems with your weight...short of loosing weight and changing your mentality (The main problem is not the extra weight...the problem is low self confidence, to some guys that is a big turn off. So its a side issue if you are 100 lbs overweight the pressing issue is that you don't think that your good enough to be with someone.) that's sort of shallow thinking. I want to be around people that do not fixate on one of my many flaws! The truth might be that some/most guys find you attractive. (Humans can be very critical of themselves.) It is unfair for a person to expect another person to love them when they don't even love themselves. You know how the girls feel all "special" inside when a guy tells them that they love them...well its nice if you tell a guy that you love him, but if you want to make a guy feel special start showing him respect. Show him that you value hearing his opinions. Guys want a cheerleader (someone that roots for him) and if you feel like the world is calling you "fat" the guy is going to feel like you think that he called you fat. Then what you try to offer a guy is a depressed cheerleader hahahaha. The truth is most guys can fall in love with a tree (assuming the tree could be a good cheerleader!) Post Reply
View Profile History	Overweight women Posted : 5 Aug, 2014 01:56 PM Well... Maybe men can be scared because people who are overweight have health issues... Meanwhile, there are health problems that lead to weight gain (the reasons are different) But i do believe that God can do all things. He can give someone who is overweight a partner who loves him or her wholeheartedly. "Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder". Finally, there's nothing worst than an ugly personality. There are some people who are not attractive but they have such a good personality you just find them the most handsome.. And some who have a ugly personality you find them ugly.. Hope it helped :* Post Reply
View Profile History	Overweight women Posted : 11 Aug, 2014 11:11 AM Size matters very much to some guys. You'll never be thin enough for some, others prefer bigger women and wouldn't consider the slimmer ones. Don't worry about your weight unless it's affecting your health because whatever size you are you're just right for somebody. Post Reply
View Profile History	Overweight women Posted : 12 Aug, 2014 09:30 AM size never matters in love. Besides a guy should love you just as you are. Don't change yourself for any one. No guy is worth it if he cant see the real you :) Btw my cousins are the worst, the;re all about size but believe me, they dont like skinny girls. They like woman with some meat on her bones lol esp women's with big butts. I'm serious lol Every person has a different view on different beings. And of course everyone is beautiful in their own kinda way. You'll find someone when the time is right. Post Reply
View Profile History	Overweight women Posted : 3 Sep, 2014 09:35 AM "Does size matter to a guy?" Yes, for me, it does. "What will make a guy overlook a woman's weight issue?" A beautiful face. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Overweight women Posted : 4 Nov, 2014 08:06 PM Some men will overlook weight issues. I sure as the rising sun won't, but I'm sure some men will. When and if I get married, I want her hot, sultry, oiled and ready to get to know me better in the Biblical sense. And I don't care how that sounds. Blessings :-) Post Reply
RD63 View Profile History	Overweight women Posted : 27 Feb, 2015 12:15 AM A guy will definitely over look a woman's weight issue if he is roughly the same body size of being overweight. However, men and women are the same on this subject. I have read women's profiles complaining that men don't control their body weight and therefore won't over look the man's weight issue. I'll say this also, I met a couple, who were engaged, relevant information here, the woman was thin and the man was really heavy set, and it was clear that the weight difference really didn't matter to either of them. So, there really isn't an absolute answer to the question when being attracted to someone is more than just being superficial. Post Reply

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