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Will you love her?
Posted : 15 May, 2009 09:48 PM

Hi guys,

I believe that the reason so many marriages fail today is because we are not embracing our God given roles in marriage.



So my question is this: will you love your wife as Christ loves the church, will you give yourself for her? Will you be the spiritual leader in your home?





Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;



In Christ, Lydia

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Posted : 16 May, 2009 03:27 AM

Though I am not married, I am and will be an Eph.25-33 man.

I will Love my wife as Christ loves the church. I will give myself for my wife. I most definately be the Spritual leader in our home. As God has healed me from past relationships, mainly the last one I have been able to forgive and to love myself. I realized to truly love the woman God has for me I must Love myself. I hated myself for so long and now God has healed me. I will Love Honor and Respect my wife just as I Love Honor and Respect Christ. I so desire to become on flesh with my wife and to honor the words Christ has given us in regards to marriage.

God Bless You,

A-rod

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Posted : 16 May, 2009 04:32 AM

dear lydia, now that i know what they are yep will do my very best..

ole cattle

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Posted : 16 May, 2009 08:43 AM

Arod,

That was a beautiful answer my brother, glory to God for the healing!



Blessings, Lydia

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Posted : 16 May, 2009 08:49 AM

Hi Cattleman,



Thanks for your answer, I am just curious about what you said " now that I know what they are". Would you care to elaborate?



In Christ, Lydia

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Posted : 16 May, 2009 11:43 AM

dear lydia,, as you know the bible does instruct us on how to love the wife.. yes.. but if you had never felt that kind of love before then youd not understand it.. so within the last 18 months or so i did come to know such a love.. and even though it didnt work out. i still got to know that i can feel that kind of love and can give it.. so theres hope for me yet hehe..

ole cattle

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Posted : 16 May, 2009 12:40 PM

Cattleman,

Yes, there is always hope with God and I believe that He has someone special for each of us, it is just a matter of what we choose to do with the opportunity.





God bless, Lydia

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Posted : 18 May, 2009 02:35 AM

Hi I am not married but I'm going to give my answer.



I am going to be sincerely honest and open in response to this question, and the answer is...NO!!



Now before nyone gets too carried away let me explain myself, the reason I say no is because I feel it is impossible for myself a mere man to love a woman as much as a righteous holy God does His bride.



But ask me will i strieve to love my wife as Christ loves His church and the answer is a resounding YES!! I will try each and every day to show her what she means to me, I would give my life for her, i would scarifice for her.



I fully believe love is an emotion but its much more than this, it is also a choice but notthe type of choice you make and then forget or change your mind about. God gives us the capacity to love, because He is love.



I hope this makes sense,



God bless

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Posted : 18 May, 2009 04:41 AM

dear mappy, that was a good answer.. as we are not perfect and it would be very hard for us to love like the perfect man does.. i stand corrected.. i am gonna try and do my very best to love her as close to that way as is possible for me..

ole cattle

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Posted : 18 May, 2009 08:46 AM

Mappy,



Yes, it does make sense, and a very good answer. I agree that love is a choice, it is also an action word and not a feeling. It is not about what we say but about what we do.



In Christ, Lydia

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Posted : 22 May, 2009 12:37 AM

yup, i agree with you all.

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