Author	Thread: Your thought on this please..?
sisygirl View Profile History	Your thought on this please..? Posted : 13 Jan, 2014 10:53 PM John and Restassured Greetings my fellow brothers in Christ. Can I humbly ask you to share your thoughts on the following: It's a continuation of a question I asked Joy on the ladies forum. I'd like to get a man's perspective on the same two questions. The first question is: * Let's say you do meet a fellow of your kind inperson. She has almost all your requirements from a lady, she only lacks this one important quality... Salvation. She loves God though she doesn't know that she's a lost soul. Unless one avails him/her self in ushering her in how to go about accepting Christ as her personal savor. It doesn't necessarily have to be you pursuing this ministry, fore it may come across as if you did it so you can be in a relationship with her without guilt. Will you make effort of interceding for her that she gets saved NOT only so you can enjoy a relationship with her, but for the sake of a lost soul won to Christ? Or you'll just give up on her and go for the next saved lady who also doesn't meet all your requirements, the only advantage is that she's saved. With her you won't have to wait in prayer till she gets saved? Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Your thought on this please..? Posted : 13 Jan, 2014 10:56 PM The second question is: Continuing from the first one. How will you take it if which ever lady that you had a relationship with from the two, was to ask you: What your intentions are by having her in your life? Her question may be influenced by a period of time you two have been praying and worshiping together not to mention countless dates you've had without progress. She's not suggesting that you get married, she respects your place as the one on a driving seat here, she's only concerned of having her time waisted when she'll be blamed too fore she's been availing herself to have her time waisted if there won't be progress in this. Thank you my brothers for partaking in this. I chose you out of respect, you don't react in your replies. You always show respect and keep the conversation flowing without fights. That I appreciate from you two... keep it up! Post Reply
View Profile History	Your thought on this please..? Posted : 14 Jan, 2014 05:47 PM hI Sisy, i not those peoples. and i unable to answer first question, as i am not in that situation.... cannot say, what i really would do. i can share this you are just living your life,suddenly a female shows up!!!!(imagine a comet hitting a small planet.) its like that... and things are not as they were... and you hear from their friends later, how it was a well planned collision. i dont know how it is supposed to be. i can only share how it has been .... hope this helps Post Reply
dunravin View Profile History	Your thought on this please..? Posted : 14 Jan, 2014 10:32 PM You raise an ugly question. You say that "she loves God" yet you also claim that she is "a lost soul", because she has no concrete understanding of "salvation". I would suggest that perhaps there is something of a contradiction in these statements. It would seem that loving God is not sufficient and that there must be amendments to salvation...The Bible states quite clearly...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved, you and your household. That is all that is actually required for salvation, although it also states that you should work out your salvation " in fear and trembling". So there is something of an impasse...Many Catholics for example do not believe in the Gospel in the same manner as many evangelicals. Does this mean that one group will find grace at the Throne of God and others not? Surely not...She loves God ...you say although in your opinion she is not saved...that would appear to me to be somewhat judgemental...Only God knows the true state of her heart and the vision that He has for her...The important consideration in my opinion is that She loves the Lord and avows that. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Your thought on this please..? Posted : 15 Jan, 2014 02:22 AM Who asked you for your opinion? This is why I kept this a closed posted... Didn't ask you for your input. Your thoughts matter not in me. Keep your arrogance to your self and never interfair with my posts. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Your thought on this please..? Posted : 15 Jan, 2014 03:26 AM Wykd Hello to you! "I'm not those people and i'm unable to answer your first question" Don't you worry yourself about that, i've made an exception for your reply with that nun-reactive attitude that I pick up from your reply. Thank you for time taken in writing back. And yes dear, the first question is a little tricky if one is to think deep about it. In short, "Would you wait if your suitable mate is still a lost soul who doesn't even know yet that she's a lost soul? Would you bother to prayer for something that you don't know how long will it take you to have it Or you'll just settle for the next available partner whose already saved inspite of what she misses as your requirement from a lady?" I think your reply is a subject on its own, I'm interested in knowing what others think of it. Won't you post it so we hear what others think of it? Maybe some fellows here have had experiences similar to it. Again, thank you for writing back. Post Reply
dunravin View Profile History	Your thought on this please..? Posted : 15 Jan, 2014 02:25 PM Sissygirl...an interesting reaction...You have posed a question on an OPEN forum asking for responses from GUYS and when a guy responds you decide to react with anger and then you claim that the response is unwarranted. You asked a question, now whether you like the response or not is immaterial... the response is given...now act your age instead of your shoe size. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Your thought on this please..? Posted : 15 Jan, 2014 06:56 PM This is a closed post. Period! I know very well this is a public forum. If I was interested in any other guys respond, wouldn't have qoated names. Never ever interfair with my posts. Even if I didn't qoate names for that matter. I don't appreciate your arrogance. Never write back to me please..... Hope there's clarity on this now. Post Reply
1jon310 View Profile History	Your thought on this please..? Posted : 15 Jan, 2014 07:51 PM Sis I think that many of us have come across this situation of being in a relationship with an unsaved. This is one of the reasons why I like your second question. Being upfront with our intentions in any relationship is the mature thing to do. It opens us up to possible rejection if the other person has different motives but it is honest because we are less likely to manipulate the relationship for our own objectives. We are told not to be unequally yolked in scripture. God gives us His instructions for our benefit not to keep us from enjoying our lives. I have watched couples and marriages where one person is unsaved and the other person is not saved. It very rarely is healthy or ends well. We should not be surprised at this for what has light to do with darkness. There are reasons for becoming romantically involved with an unsaved person but I have yet to hear of a good one. r Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Your thought on this please..? Posted : 15 Jan, 2014 09:21 PM Friendship, are you good? I'll take it as "The nun-believing part is not worth the effort of waiting unless you only praying for her that she gets saved, and that is all to it." I'm glad that you think its a responsible thing to do that one must ask for clarity as to where is the relationship heading to, even if its a lady bringing this subject up. Why are guys (not all though) resistant to these types of conversations? It usually takes them so much to open up. Its as if the lady's forcing the convention or she's desperate. Do you know why? Post Reply
dunravin View Profile History	Your thought on this please..? Posted : 16 Jan, 2014 12:22 AM Your reaction is a matter of the arrogance that is displayed...If you wanted it to be private then you should not have entered it in a public forum but rather in a private place...You simply demonstrate your intolerance and your bitterness, thus you deserve the hardness of heart that you have... Post Reply

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