Author	Thread: Women
Admin	Women Posted : 7 Jul, 2013 10:39 AM Men, If you have learned this or not and most women wont admit this or maybe even be aware of it but here it is. Do you really want to love a woman? Men Well all women hate something about their selves. If you discover this and love what a woman hates in her self your woman will find such love from you. I am talking about unconditional love. We all need this but a womans emotions cause her to hate things and their are things she might hate in you but dont react to her but love her instead. Things she hates in her self but dont try making her stop hating those things. She only needs you to love her when she hates her self. When your woman hates her self we want to try rescuing her by resolving the problem. This act of yours actually feels like rejection instead of love. We think in doing so will eleviate her hatered of self. Thats not so. Only your love and total acceptance of her will free her of her hatred of her self. It will free her for that moment but she will find something else to hate her self over guarenteed. When she asks about her body or a question about her self be honest and tell her that you can see that you hate this about your self dont you? Help her process through her feeling of self hatred and when you do then she will be free. Love her in the process and walk with her through her feelings. She will always come back to you for more if you love her in this unconditional love. She will never abandon you for another. She will be a faithful and secure woman. She will highly respect you. Because you just led her in love and what does every woman want? To be loved that is all. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Women Posted : 7 Jul, 2013 07:23 PM Letthismind2 Just made me laugh big time on your 6th paragraph "It will free her for that moment but she'll find something else to hate her self for..... guaranteed." You're so observant In one of your previous replies to the asked question by a guy here, you said "weman are crazy...." (there was nothing personal or offensive to me in you saying that, unless I would have qoeted out of contexts) instead I started noticing that whenever I approach in the work place, to a friend's place when hunging out with other friends, When approaching from a distance, people start before I even greet or say anything. So much that even when trying to address something serious, have to put effort to get them taking me seriously. Said it this one time "suppose something's just crazy about me" no one denied, instead they continued to laugh. Your lady must really be enjoying you. You can be funny at times, especially when you're at ease like you seem on above post. Sorry friend that was meant for guys, just couldn't help it..... Post Reply
mithridates View Profile History	Women Posted : 8 Jul, 2013 12:14 AM Like a lot of vague general statements aimed at describing one particular gender, that doesn't seem to be at all exclusive to women. Being imperfect, all people have parts of themselves that they recognize as bad and making such an observation invariably leads one to dislike those parts of oneself. It's not like men are emotionless robots, while women are helpless to their emotions. This seems much more to be a ubiquitiously human experience than a female one. Post Reply
View Profile History	Women Posted : 8 Jul, 2013 05:04 AM Myth, Do you remember the episode of Bugs Bunny where he is sitting around a poker table the the dealer is dealing out money or something. Bugs chimes in and in differing costumes he says this line. (How about me boss) We men gain this same attitude in relationship. When we do it is anti-christ. Being we are a representitive of Christ in marriage and Christ came to give His life and to serve not to be served. Men need to find their emotional foundation in Christ alone. Women on the other hand have the foundation of Christ and their husband who is to love like Christ loves. We husbands become the representitives of Christ to the world and we do this through loving one woman in paticular. We show forth that we are Christs deciples when we in the Spirit of God perform this responsibility with honor and sucess. If men loved their wives and children what a impact it would have again on our country and world. Not saying that their are men who do not but if more men did and trained up more men to do that what a difference it would make. If we men led other men to love their wives and children and taught them how to resolve their inner conflicts that they were secure to love also. What would the world be like? We learn one life at a time and it begins here in this dating world. We either learn how to love here or we continue to make the same mistakes over and over again, reacting and abusing our women out of anger. We either learn how to love or we continue to use women as objects. We either learn how to love or we continue to dominate women as the weaker vessle. We learn how to love because we look to the example of Gods love for us and then walk by faith in it. Post Reply
hubbarddebra99 View Profile History	Women Posted : 12 Jul, 2013 09:09 AM you are very wise Post Reply
mithridates View Profile History	Women Posted : 14 Jul, 2013 10:25 PM I don't disagree with your hopes and dreams of future america, but I guess I really don't see how hating parts of yourself is at all a feminine attribute, that's all. The most masculine men I know are not those who hide behind curtains of "msculinity" and feign confidence and strength; it is those who openly show weakness and emotional frailty, as Jesus did. In my opinion, "true" men cry when they feel like it, as Jesus did. They do not play emotional fakeness in the form of being "tough for your woman" like American culture approves of as we see in countless action movies. If we men are to truly love women as Christ loves us, then we should constantly be open to our emotions and inner feelings. If anybody seeks to follow and be like-Christ, why wouldn't they feel negatively about parts of them-self that go against Christ? That to be, again, is a feeling and idea that is above gender. It is ubiquitously human in nature. Post Reply
ChristianArtsy View Profile History	Women Posted : 15 Jul, 2013 04:49 AM Amen Post Reply
View Profile History	Women Posted : 15 Jul, 2013 05:13 AM Yes, men have feelings and i am one. I do cry with my feincee and with my God. What men often do and I was guilty is react to women out of their emotion. Our reactions or lack of them speak of the man we are. Post Reply
ChristianArtsy View Profile History	Women Posted : 16 Jul, 2013 09:28 AM Jesus showS emotion, He cried, He laughed, He got angry, He loved, and there�s more than likely things we don�t know as of yet. We know, well, I�m a witness to Holy laughter, painful prayer in the spirit, being overtaken with joy, feeling love and loved in the Spirit. mithridates > �If we men are to truly love women as Christ loves us, then we should constantly be open to our emotions and inner feelings.�.. Amen to all of it I think it�s nonproductive to continually widen the gender divide on dumb founded generalities, that have proven time and again to have no rendering of solutions, ie; women are from Venus men are from Mars. :excited:. Shouldn't our book be the Bible... I have more respect for men than I have had in the past. Maybe that started when I saw men� and Men of God as two separate entities. Aren't� the old things pasted away and all things become new for Christian Men (even if they've yet to know/understand it) .. and us too. If God says His men are mighty, more than conquers, well able, leaders, etc, and regardless of what I see, I truly believe it, cause that�s what God says, then how could I put them down? How could I not respect them? I submit before you Men of God: that maybe a look at the Women of God with a view from the eyes of our Father and Creator might remove some of frustrations and answer some of the questions. None of us are perfect in whatever area, but aren't we different from the world, aren't� we expected to be. I�m not what I was, but because of Jesus I am growing and along with that: I am God�s daughter, an heir to the throne of The Most High God. When I look at the women of th world I am glad that I can now see that is not me.. When the female put downs come from your brothers, its just a little extra 'special". But now I know I can do like my brother King David did and remind myself of who I am, I�m not crazy, God says I have a sound mind, so that�s actually a lie, I may not be Joshua, but like Deborah, I am well able, with the power of God THAT LIVES IN ME to conquer whatever crazies (problems) He allows to come my way today. I can ask for wisdom whenever I want, when I don�t understand something I got the Holy Spirit to break it down to me. God is on my side and has me covered front back and sideways, I�m protected even from stuff I don�t know about. there's a bunches of stuff AND most of all I get to spend eternity with this Awesome God. Can you imagine a wife speaking the word of truth over her husband, A Man of God... Encouraging him when he has emotions of sadness, anger etc. Sharing the Joy, laughter, happiness, and all the other emotions God's gives all people. IMO Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Women Posted : 16 Jul, 2013 02:03 PM Letthismind2 Dear friend Life its about choices and people are entitled to their openions. You meant well on that post about weman, I still enjoy it as first time when reading it. If only one person took it positively (me) whom i'm not even a guy, Then something is right & very normal about it. At times you don't have to explain or defend your self. You won't always please everyone SO don't even try..... Post Reply
View Profile History	Women Posted : 16 Jul, 2013 06:06 PM ChristianArtsy, I love you sister and you are welcome in my threads any time. Post Reply

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