Author	Thread: If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond...
Annabel_Lee View Profile History	If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond... Posted : 2 Dec, 2012 12:20 PM Does that mean they aren't interested? That's what I'm assuming, and it makes me sad. Post Reply
Annabel_Lee View Profile History	If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond... Posted : 2 Dec, 2012 04:00 PM Hahaha...kind of like how 4 people read this and no one replied. Wow. I must be anti-magnetic or something. Goodness... Post Reply
View Profile History	If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond... Posted : 2 Dec, 2012 05:36 PM I wanna know what it means when someone adds you as a favorite. Or if they wink at you, why don't they just email you???? Post Reply
Annabel_Lee View Profile History	If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond... Posted : 2 Dec, 2012 07:22 PM I think favourites means they find you very interesting and it makes it easier to find your profile quickly. Wink is a flirtation, and in my opinion an invitation to message if interested. I would like to know what it is that makes people look and not message back, and the only thing I can come to the conclusion of is either not feeling they are close enough to me distance-wise, or that I'm a single mother, and am divorced. Is that really such a large hurdle that even a message is out of the question? I'm a loving, loyal, Go Post Reply
Annabel_Lee View Profile History	If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond... Posted : 2 Dec, 2012 07:24 PM (cat walked across keyboard!) God-loving woman, with a lot to offer and an excellent background, including Military service. I don't understand people... Post Reply
View Profile History	If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond... Posted : 2 Dec, 2012 08:12 PM I don't get it either. Men don't understand how much they hinder a woman's self esteem. I'm godly, beautiful, smart, funny....but one look at my past and they run. Oh well, their loss lol and some day another man's gain. So what you're divorced with kids, the bible says "all have fallen short of the glory of God." So no man is any better than you nor can judge you. Single moms are hero's in my book :) you go girl! Post Reply
Philipian View Profile History	If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond... Posted : 3 Dec, 2012 04:29 AM Well to say,ColtsGuru, if someone Favorited you, it could be because they find your profile interesting or clinching a match, it could also be for easier indexing and future connection to, rather than using the Find User command to locate you allover again. Whatever it is, its relieving to know someone Favorited you. Again some people are not good at running fingers to type, no matter how close they are to you, so "hi', "hey" would be a consoling thing for them to do. Messaging you will mean, there is seriously something to say to you. So if they have not, then they may not message. But be sure someone somewhere is trying to or going to message you. So you are safe. For the WINK, some say winks are flirts notations. But sometimes its a declaration that "you caught my eyes". You may take a WINK serious if it comes with a message, and the message really had a good body inside its envelopes! If just a WINK, and you see the sender profile seem interesting to you,then you may wink back! If not for anything, just take a WINK as an AWARENESS! Post Reply
View Profile History	If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond... Posted : 3 Dec, 2012 04:34 AM I know it can be frustrating for you Ladies and even many men but try not to take it personally. Think of this site as a shopping mall. When you shop you window shop. Some times enter a store and even pick up a article of clothing. You do a even further investigation of an article by trying it on. But its only the article you love and is a perfect fit, you want to purchase and bring home with you, right? All the articles you looked at and did not choose were still good articles but just not the right ones for you. If only they had emotion and could speak what stories would they tell about being bought and returned. People trying to lift them and getting caught. People to big trying to cram their bodies in them. All the people touching them and just leaving them alone. Know that you are of great value. Any man not able to express to you how chereshed you are by him in a genuine way is not worthy of your heart and emotional energy. Post Reply
Philipian View Profile History	If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond... Posted : 3 Dec, 2012 04:50 AM From your Dec 2 ASK, We must realize a lot of things goes on in each individual's head and also much of what they are looking for. If you wink at someone and they look you up and don't get to wink or message you. Well you may be right, maybe respectfully, you really aren't what they are looking for. Also cases are, they intend to wink or message you back, but they just never did. Maybe forgetful or something took them away or something. Also what makes people look and not message back may not be too far fetched from reason for winks. It may be and may not be because you are divorced and a single mother. It may not be. Humans are all different in reactions to things and people. Some will hate the idea, while some will see nothing bad in the idea of you being a single mother or divorced. Remember some also among us here were raised by single moms and divorced parents! You asked if it were a big hurdle to send out a message, but I often ask if it was such a bigger hurdle to return a message! Post Reply
View Profile History	If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond... Posted : 3 Dec, 2012 06:00 AM 13Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, 14I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus. This is a good reminder of whatever we are looking for. let us not get caught up in the past. What others said or did but knowing God has good things for us today and the future. Lets us be people who search for treasures and not people who look at the dirt. Post Reply
View Profile History	If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond... Posted : 3 Dec, 2012 02:41 PM I 'favourited' someone a few months back - not because they were a favourite as such (I hadn't even messaged them at that point) - I just wanted some way of keeping their profile easy to find so I could act on it later. Of course, as soon as I had messaged/winked them, whichever it was, I removed them from my favourites - though that may have put them off as I never got any response. As for being divorced and a mum, well that will put some guys off - some are of the opinion that divorcees, except in a certain circumstance, aren't eligible for remarriage. Others have no problems with it. Finally, where it comes to children, that usually means an ex is in the picture somewhere which can be off-putting, but also the mixed messages single parents send about what role the new person is to play to their children add yet more restrictions. I've said it here before; I've dated single parents and always formed a close bond with the kids, so when things don't work out, it usually ends up breaking their little hearts too. Not something I want to keep doing, yet obviously I can't stay around in their lives if mum and I have moved on. In short, it's a lot of extra heartache when kids are involved and I keep telling myself no more single mums; but at my age many of the single women are exactly that... Post Reply

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