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betty85

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Where are the real men?
Posted : 26 Jul, 2012 07:48 PM

After being on this website for years, I'm still left wondering where are all the men who are willing to step up and be real men? The kind of Godly men who are gentlemen, who know how to be responsible, and knows how to pursue/court a lady? Does he only exist within my imagination?

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Posted : 26 Jul, 2012 08:04 PM

Gentlemen,



This gal is a keeper. One of the finest women of God on this site. Somebody needs to snap her up fast before she gets discouraged and leaves the site. I promise you won't regret it.



Now, I know what you are thinking. If she's so great Bob, why don't you pursue her? Guys, I tried but unfortunately, I still have a few things to learn about women. :)

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Posted : 27 Jul, 2012 06:28 AM

Betty,



I was told by a yonger man that he respects me and sees me as a real man.



High praise indeed from another man, praise Jesus!



I told him that is because I look to the one who is a real man and seek to follow Him.



You know who I am referring to............Jesus.



Look to Jesus betty, He is real as they get then look to find a man who mirrors Jesus in his life.



Thats the man you want. Be encouraged dear sister their are still real men out here.



Just as the real women are rare gems rare men are rare as well.





Patiently,



Michael

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Posted : 27 Jul, 2012 11:15 AM

seems more You have a unrealistic expectation as the few fellas i do know that fit this description of what You seek have a zero tolerance level concerning alcohol...

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Posted : 27 Jul, 2012 12:54 PM

Brother Peace,



I mean this with all good intent and care for you. Rather than trying to lower the standard that you are able to meet such standard, why not be a man of greater standard?



Learn how to be a man of greater standard by looking to Jesus example.



Strength & Honor,



Michael

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Posted : 27 Jul, 2012 04:20 PM

HI Michael,

Bro,i checked Her Profile, i divorced so i not in Her "worthy" catagory....

besides She way to young for this ol' codger :ROFL:

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Posted : 27 Jul, 2012 10:08 PM

I have to go with Peace on this. I would never court/date/marry a woman who drinks, even if she only drinks upon occasion. I am within her age range, Ive never been married so its impossible for me to have children. I have been a devout Christian all my life. Im a gentleman. Always have been.

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Posted : 27 Jul, 2012 10:08 PM

I have to go with Peace on this. I would never court/date/marry a woman who drinks, even if she only drinks upon occasion. I am within her age range, Ive never been married so its impossible for me to have children. I have been a devout Christian all my life. Im a gentleman. Always have been.

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Posted : 28 Jul, 2012 05:51 PM

Thank you, Bobbobbins and LetThisMind.



There are too many people, both men and women, who have put aside "old fashioned" values in regards to relationships and courtships. There has been a role reversal where the women become the pursuers and have become very aggressive, and the men have become lazy and don't take their God-appointed leadership role.



I ask the Lord all the time where the real Godly men are hiding. They must all be under some unturned rock somewhere, for I know they must exist somewhere.



It is true, I do have high standards and expectations, and they will remain high. I hope that others have high expectations for me. I have to have something to live up to.

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Posted : 29 Jul, 2012 06:20 AM

I would have to ask you betty are men who have gone through a divorce not real men in your estimation? if so why?

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Posted : 29 Jul, 2012 11:01 AM

No, I never said divorced men aren't real men. Of course they can be!

My decision to not date divorced men is a different issue and doesn't belong under this topic. However, if you truly want to know, I wouldn't mind sharing in a private message.

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