Author	Thread: "Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive???
Admin	"Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive??? Posted : 21 Jan, 2012 07:33 PM Hello guys! So, here's the deal. I like my fuller figure. I work out and eat healthily. The problem? I have trouble finding guys who have the same appreciation for my body type. My friends who are thinner are married or in relationships, while those with fuller figures like myself are single. What's up with that? Post Reply
View Profile History	"Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive??? Posted : 22 Jan, 2012 04:32 AM I think it depends on personal preference :) Jah bless, Ken Post Reply
View Profile History	"Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive??? Posted : 22 Jan, 2012 09:44 AM Thinner women will have more choices, choices narrowed when not in the ideal body type range. But can be many other reasons why single. Post Reply
View Profile History	"Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive??? Posted : 22 Jan, 2012 10:40 AM I see women with your body type every day either holding hands with a guy or hanging on his arm, most look quite happy. What does that tell you? Blessings, Glenn Post Reply
View Profile History	"Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive??? Posted : 22 Jan, 2012 05:27 PM That's strange that this seems to be the way your friends fall according to relationships. I've never found body type to be a determining factor for anybody being married. I know single people of all shapes and sizes, and I know married people of all shapes and sizes. I really don't think it's as big a deal to people as people assume it is. I don't think it "widens the playing field" at all or whatever dumb thing someone said, because at the same time there are plenty of other factors that could narrow it again. People are compatible in loads of different ways, and incompatible in loads of different ways. Post Reply
View Profile History	"Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive??? Posted : 22 Jan, 2012 05:29 PM Judging from your picture you are extremely pretty (and stylish!) and if you are comfortable with your body type and aren't unhealthy (and it sounds like you aren't), I don't think you need to worry about physical appearance being a contributing factor to your singleness. Likely you just haven't hit it off with the right guy, or the timing hasn't been right. Post Reply
View Profile History	"Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive??? Posted : 22 Jan, 2012 11:11 PM I have come to realize that although we may be attracted to someone and they aren't attracted to us we (and I mean those who have struggled with their self esteem) including myself at some point wonder what is wrong with us? And no I'm not going to say what is wrong with them either. No, we are visual people and we act on what we like or don't like we can't fault anyone really because there are many factors. But the man who is coming to you, the one god has ordained is going to be attracted to you, is going to love every part of you, it just sucks having to wade through the water a bit before he comes. But God is able and once he holds your heart he is more than able to look after it. Be blessed, from one curvy girl to another. Post Reply
Devotedlove47^ View Profile History	"Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive??? Posted : 23 Jan, 2012 05:24 AM Hello Authentic84 I sense what you might be experiencing is an age group/peer group thing. Most young slim men today in their 20's, tend to be more preconditioned by societal influences to pursue the slimmer lady over the fuller one. With a lot of the concern over obesity today, I think people tend to see being full figured as being obese. Also there is the factor of future wife and kids that play a major role in a man's choice. A guy may like you a whole lot, but may have concerns about your future health and appearance 5 or 10 years from now. "What is she going to look like after she exhales"? "What is she going to look like after having our children"? "Will her attitude change once we are married"? "Will physical intimacy or personal hygiene be a labor for her"? Do you follow what I'm saying? Most men tend to think futuristic when they find themselves becoming seriously attracted to a woman. There are men however, who are attracted to all types of women, (myself included) who do not feel so overly concerned about such issues, they a looking purely for true Godly intimacy and romance with a woman, nothing else. This kind of man is out there, I sense you just have not encountered him yet. Post Reply
View Profile History	"Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive??? Posted : 23 Jan, 2012 06:55 PM I tells me it's not impossible to find love with any body type, but I still believe it is a bit tricky at times. Thanks for your response, though :-) Post Reply
View Profile History	"Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive??? Posted : 23 Jan, 2012 07:06 PM Ken � That makes sense. :-) lkdenison � I know there are many factors, and that thinner women may have more options. It doesn�t make it any less frustrating or hurtful. Glenn � I�m not saying it�s impossible for curvier women to find love. It�s just a little more difficult. But thanks! godsgirl23 � Thank you for your kind words! My frustration isn�t that I have met �THE ONE.� I know that takes time. I�d just like to enjoy a cup of coffee or a movie with a guy once in a while, you know? Maybe some putt-putt, LoL. kjd23k � Yeah, it�s frustrating. But we�re both attractive women. We�ll be okay :-) devotedlove47 � Well, maybe I�ll have a better chance when I�m in my 40s then, LoL. Post Reply
View Profile History	"Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive??? Posted : 23 Jan, 2012 07:06 PM Ken � That makes sense. :-) lkdenison � I know there are many factors, and that thinner women may have more options. It doesn�t make it any less frustrating or hurtful. Glenn � I�m not saying it�s impossible for curvier women to find love. It�s just a little more difficult. But thanks! godsgirl23 � Thank you for your kind words! My frustration isn�t that I have met �THE ONE.� I know that takes time. I�d just like to enjoy a cup of coffee or a movie with a guy once in a while, you know? Maybe some putt-putt, LoL. kjd23k � Yeah, it�s frustrating. But we�re both attractive women. We�ll be okay :-) devotedlove47 � Well, maybe I�ll have a better chance when I�m in my 40s then, LoL. Post Reply

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