Author	Thread: Um... Yeah...
Admin	Um... Yeah... Posted : 16 Sep, 2011 08:28 AM So if a guy starts talking to you about taking you on a date and holding hands, walking arm in arm around a park, cuddling while watching a moving, and asking if you think the two of you would have good chemistry together, is that a good sign that he is interested? Post Reply
View Profile History	Um... Yeah... Posted : 16 Sep, 2011 09:47 AM rephrase the question, are you saying all those things have been just talked about, or actually has been done? If have been just talking about a lot of that, sure that shows interest, but seems more like fantasy interest. I would need more info about such of a scenario to understand better. Post Reply
bryan1608 View Profile History	Um... Yeah... Posted : 16 Sep, 2011 02:46 PM yes interested but moving a bit fast it sounds like Post Reply
View Profile History	Um... Yeah... Posted : 16 Sep, 2011 04:09 PM Remember,part of ther character of man is that he has a warrior and conquerer spirit. Once he has gotten what he wants,they usually move on to their next conquest. Shalom Post Reply
View Profile History	Um... Yeah... Posted : 16 Sep, 2011 07:52 PM Just wondering how there could be any doubt and what part of that makes you think he's not interested. Post Reply
View Profile History	Um... Yeah... Posted : 17 Sep, 2011 06:22 AM i actually agree with everyone here :applause: Post Reply
MyCrownIsGod View Profile History	Um... Yeah... Posted : 18 Sep, 2011 02:11 PM Yes, he is interested in you. But he is also interested in being very physical with you. For men, this is how they show affection. Men are more physical. While a woman is generally more content with the less physical aspects of a relationship (communication) men like to touch, hold hands, snuggle. Women like this too, but in the male mind, snuggling leads to them wanting more physical contact, if you know what I mean. It's not really a question of his interest in you, its more of a question of how far does he want this physical interest to go. If he's more interested in touching you than having a conversation with you, there is a good chance all he wants from you is sex, not a real, lasting and committed relationship. Post Reply
View Profile History	Um... Yeah... Posted : 19 Sep, 2011 12:47 PM Interested? Sounds like it, but be careful not to let things get too deep too quick - easier said than done when emotions get in the mix! Post Reply
View Profile History	Um... Yeah... Posted : 19 Sep, 2011 01:22 PM This guy I went to college with, that I didn't really talk to in college and vice versa, IMed me on facebook last summer on my birthday, and after we "caught up" on what we were doing with our life he told me that I was amazingly stunning in one of my profile pictures then wanted to know when I was going to be in Omaha next so we could get together (as friends). I contacted him when I was in Omaha, but he didn't have any time to hang out. And he completely stopped talking to me. A couple weeks ago (after a year of not talking) he asked when I was going to be in Omaha next and said it would be fun to "meet up". But he doesn't talk to me. So I started talking to him, and he wanted to know what I would wear if we hung out. I told him it would depend on the occasion, but it would be a surprise (because I just don't plan outfits that far in advance). Then he started talking about taking me out to eat at a nice restaurant, and then afterwards we would walk around downtown Omaha holding hands or walking arm in arm, then we would go back to his place and watch a movie and cuddle. He then asked if I thought we would have good chemistry together and told me that he thinks we would. I am fairly certain that he is interested, but this confusing to me because we weren't friends in college and we really don't talk to each other. I don't really know him and he doesn't really know me. When I said I wanted to get to know him first he said"OK" and then stopped talking to me. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Um... Yeah... Posted : 19 Sep, 2011 01:41 PM It sounds like he's interested, but wants to move on past the "getting to know you" stage and get to the physical stage a bit too quickly. The fact that he occasionally quits talking to you is also a bit bothersome. If you want to get to know him better before getting into a relationship, stick to that...he's disregarding your boundaries if he won't respect your wishes. Be careful if you do get to meet up with this guy. Make sure it's in a public location, and that you let someone know where you'll be, who you'll be with, and when you expect to be home. Keep us posted! Post Reply
View Profile History	Um... Yeah... Posted : 19 Sep, 2011 02:25 PM Going back to his place and cuddle, wanting to know what you are wearing, not talking to you unless it's to find out when you will be in town. This all sounds to me like he is only interested in you physically. I would see if you can get him to talk, otherwise I think he is just trying to get something for nothing. Don't be alone with him, as in don't go to his place to watch a movie and cuddle. Infact, if he states that again, tell him that you would prefer to only be in public and not alone and see how he responds. I bet he will suddenly not be so interested in you. Post Reply

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