Author	Thread: How would you want to be approached? Scenario...
jmae View Profile History	How would you want to be approached? Scenario... Posted : 17 Aug, 2011 09:42 AM So you, your lovely self, work at a little small town coffee shop. A regular gal walks in - she's interested. How would you want her to approach you? Keep in mind that you are working.... This may or may not be a real world scenario *upward eyeroll and innocent whistle*. This girl also is a traditional romantic and would much rather have you make the first move - but hey - she has to let you know she's interested... The girl concerned may or may not be well - me (whistles again) ;) Non-cliche and not so corny answers would be best... but if you must have fun with your reply feel free to do so and make us laugh :laugh: Thanks! Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	How would you want to be approached? Scenario... Posted : 17 Aug, 2011 11:38 AM Well, as an employee at this establishment, I'm going to be quite unlikely to just up and ask out a girl who walks in, as I don't want to be fired for sexual harassment. However, if she were to come in when I'm working quite regularly, have small conversations with me, learn my name, etc., I'm going to be much more likely to ask her out anyways. As far as her asking me out, something along the lines of, "I always enjoy our chats, but I feel like I'm distracting you from your job. Why don't we go get dinner sometime when you don't have to work?" or something along those lines would send a pretty clear message without looking too desperate. Post Reply
View Profile History	How would you want to be approached? Scenario... Posted : 17 Aug, 2011 01:31 PM Tulip's suggestion sounds sensible and respectful - I can't really add to it, but would ask you consider the possibility he may be seeing somebody or in a relationship already. That's not to say don't try, just be prepared in case he doesn't give you the answer you want. Go for it, and hopefully in a few weeks you'll be telling us all about your new boyfriend! Post Reply
View Profile History	How would you want to be approached? Scenario... Posted : 17 Aug, 2011 01:52 PM Why are you interested in this guy? If you better understand your motives then you may better develop the motivation and angle of approach or realize it may not even be your hearts desire. Whenever I am attracted to a woman yet nervous I realize its almost always if not always because she stimulates my mind yet conflicts with my faith,heart(lust based) yet the women who appeal to my heart because they are true christians well then I have no fear yet excitement in introducing myself and becoming friends. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	How would you want to be approached? Scenario... Posted : 17 Aug, 2011 09:00 PM Aaaah maan Tulip beat me to it lol...chances are: if this guy is interested in you than he probably saw you before you saw him how to aproach him...make yourself avaliable to him for a lil conversation, that way he will not feel like he will get shut down or in trouble...perhaps a lil snooping will uncover when he has an oppertunity to talk and find out what hes interested in before the initial conversation. :^) Post Reply
View Profile History	How would you want to be approached? Scenario... Posted : 17 Aug, 2011 09:51 PM invite me to a church function or somewhere public yet neutral group oriented so i can observe how You treat people,both those You like and those You donot.plus it does not feel so much like a date.... Post Reply
View Profile History	How would you want to be approached? Scenario... Posted : 18 Aug, 2011 03:51 PM Well, on a similar subject, if a young lady is interested in "me", then she's probably gonna need to make the first move, whether it be on here or out in the real world. She's probably gonna need to let me know, in a very obvious way, that she's interested. For example, if a young lady is interested in me, then she should send me a "wink" on here...OR...if she's out in the real world, then she would need to say something that, without any doubt, would be an obvious sign that she's interested. Just saying "hi, how are you" and/or acting very friendly toward me doesn't always work. WHY??? Because I'm one of those guys who doesn't pick up on those things as easily as most. In other words, I'm not an easy fish to catch most of the time...and you might not be able to catch me at all unless you're REALLY trying to get my attention. I'm simply not the chasing type in most cases...so if I show a young lady interest, then she better not take it for granted...otherwise she will probably lose me. Another thing, when I'm out in public or at a restaurant, a young lady is far better off to wait until I'm by myself before saying anything to me. WHY??? Because I don't like anyone being up in my personal business...mainly because I know that it causes problems. It's difficult enough just trying to please "one" person...but trying to please several different people at the same time when everyone has their own opinions/ideas...now that's just ridiculous! LOL :) Well, looks like I've given away some of my secrets...but if any young lady who's interested in me reads this, please don't tell me unless I ask...I'd rather keep things interesting. LOL Post Reply
View Profile History	How would you want to be approached? Scenario... Posted : 18 Aug, 2011 04:42 PM Find an excuse to give him your number or add him to your fb, with a kind of "We should hang out sometime" kind of mentality. That's about as forward as you need to be. Or you could just straight out ask him, there's nothing wrong with that. Post Reply
View Profile History	How would you want to be approached? Scenario... Posted : 18 Aug, 2011 04:49 PM Actually, all you literally need to say is word for word "This might sound crazy, but would you wanna go out sometime?" A woman said this to me once when I worked at the front desk at a fitness center but she was like in her late 30's so it was a 'nah' but it was still cool and if it was some one more my age I would've said yes. Didn't lose any respect for her at all. Actually I did sorta say yes, but she didn't leave her # or come back again. Post Reply
View Profile History	How would you want to be approached? Scenario... Posted : 18 Aug, 2011 05:03 PM How about: Young Man (employee) spots Young Lady reading a 'Dirt Bike' Magazine (upside down) who keeps looking over at him...but looks away whenever he does look at her. Young Man (employee) is considering calling the Mall Cops when the Young Lady walks over to the counter and says "I;d like a pack of Blue Eyes and..a bag of Gorgeous Smile with Dimples." Young Man (employee) is now looking at her with a Quizzical Expression when Young Lady suddenly realizes what she s just said and trys to correct herself. "I...I...meant a Chak of Pips and a Chag of Bookies. Her (Young Lady) Face now Redder than Rudolphs Nose finally throws her hands up in the air and says. "I like you...you seem nice...can we talk later? The Young Man (employee) replys "Tak Wook you Lo Sung?" Post Reply
View Profile History	How would you want to be approached? Scenario... Posted : 18 Aug, 2011 05:13 PM Seriously, If there is no Ring you say "Hi...I'm Windy" "I was wondering if you had a Girlfriend" If he answers "No" and is Smiling (or at least not frownig) then just ask him if he'd like to share a soda with you later. Bare in mind that I have no idea what this guy is like and you will need to "assess" that yourself. Post Reply

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