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Admin	few extra pounds Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 01:20 PM Is this a real important factor in choose Your mate? Why? Step up and be honest!:laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 01:54 PM It depends on what they mean by �a few extra pounds�. Do they mean a little overweight (by the CDC standards), or do they really mean obese. Being a little overweight is ok, being obese is another. Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 02:21 PM not a consideration...the choosing your mate I have a problem with...are you like thinking a man chooses you and so you just go along with that? Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 04:41 PM @Angelforlove, for people who make an issue of everything, it's a big deal. @lovingcoman, Yes, that's pretty much how it goes. Men drag women back to their caves in a kidnapping-like manner, and if we decide we don't want you for a mate in return, we pretty much just start running. :ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 04:46 PM not a consideration...the choosing your mate I have a problem with...are you like thinking a man chooses you and so you just go along with that? Great..You are an exception, because many men do not want a Overweight woman. No, He may choose me and I may not go along with him.:laugh: Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 06:31 PM For me, health is an important factor. Weight is a big part of making sure not only that you're still alive for your spouse and kids, but that you can live an active lifestyle while you're alive as well. Does that mean that I'm only looking for a woman with a BMI of 18? Of course not. I actually don't really like super skinny women. There's a lot more important things, but pretending like weight is irrelevant would just be a lie. Think of it like credit card debt. Almost nobody's going to have a problem with a little bit of manageable debt, but significant debt can turn into a problem. The same goes for weight. Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 09:23 PM Oh cry me a river. A vast majority of guys including myself do not find fat women attractive. That's just the way it is. Life's not fair, not everyone gets a trophy. Either change it or accept it. Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 14 Jul, 2011 12:17 AM Hmm, I think the change needs to be in the man, not the woman. It should be noted that if some mouthy girl came on the forum saying how ugly fat guys are, or how little money everyone has we'd have all the men in a stir. :rolleyes: Most people don't feel bad until the cruelty is aimed at them. Christ's reaction to someone's sorrow was probably not "Cry me a river, build me a bridge and get over it." Just a voice of reason. Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 14 Jul, 2011 01:37 AM I did say "Cry me a river", but the whole of the message was out of love. Sometimes that means telling people what they don't want to hear in order to wake them up (Yes. Being overweight is not attractive in the dating game. Lose it or keep on doing what you've always done and keep on getting what you've always got. Healthy or unhealthy both take effort. It's your choice.) rather than being treated like a baby so insecure they can't hear an honest opinion, or use discernment and common sense, or pull themselves up by the bootstraps, grow up, and improve themselves. Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 14 Jul, 2011 11:04 AM Angel says: few extra pounds Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 01:20 PM Is this a real important factor in choose Your mate? Why? Step up and be honest! Mr.Magoo (for this week at least) The woman any man marries;she will not PHYSICALLY be the same woman as when first introduced,dated,and married. Both physically and spiritually she will be changed. On the physical side,look at her Mother,you might get a look at your future wife. Spiritually,Trust, Yeshua,for your WIFE,will fail you,and fail she will'Guaranteed' The same goes for a man Ladies. Look at his dad,you might be seeing your future husband. You will also need to be trusting Yeshua,for the man will FAIL-FAIL-FAIL. Yet Yeshua will never fail you. Shalom Magoo ps: MsMarvel Intelligent,wise and last but not least Attractive Post Reply
View Profile History	few extra pounds Posted : 14 Jul, 2011 01:40 PM If she weighs more than about 14st then I'll struggle to carry her over the threshold! I weigh quite a bit more than that, but only God offers to carry me... Post Reply

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