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Sugar_and_Spice

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Is there something wrong with me?
Posted : 11 May, 2011 06:30 PM

I joined this site for a few months now and no one has really communicated with me. All I get are views. Is there something wrong with me. Am I not pretty enough? Is it because I am a single mom? Or is it because I am from the Philippines? Did I say something wrong on my profile? :(

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Posted : 11 May, 2011 06:40 PM

I`d say it`s because your from Philippines. Most men here are from north america and want a girl closer. That doesn`t mean there aren`t men interested in you.

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Sugar_and_Spice

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Posted : 11 May, 2011 06:47 PM

thanks for your reply victory7.

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Posted : 11 May, 2011 08:23 PM

hi sugar and spice:waving: theres nothing wrong in your profile and your beautiful! like you i joined here just couple of months back.when i joined here im not really expecting that im going to meet here the man that our good Lord set aside from me.I'll just lift all up to him.I just wanted to meet new people,make friends if they like...so if i were you try to do the same and continue praying.I agree also what victory said almost of the men here dont like a really long distance relationship or outside the U.S.



just be your self,Godbless you.....your kapwa pinay:glow:

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Sugar_and_Spice

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Posted : 11 May, 2011 08:52 PM

@simplyme_jaz

thanks for you inputs! :glow:

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Posted : 12 May, 2011 04:48 PM

Sugar and Spice there's nothing wrong with you, sweetie.





Some guys just view you and have no clue what to say. Don't take it personal, I don't. I'm gorgeous honey, and you are too. You have to know that. I'll even be audacious enough to say that some guys on this site are NOT Christians for real, they're just looking for whatever.



Plus sometimes...





I think Satan is behind things like this. For example, he would want you to feel like you're not beautiful enough, or don't dress seductively enough, etc., so then you'll change and go in the opposite direction of God and what He expects from you.



Don't change!





A friend of mine from this site was showing me how TYPICALLY

the more scantily clad women had a higher amount of "FAVORITES" on their page than some of the other women who looked more modest. I couldn't believe it.



I say, at the end of the day, don't stress yourself. If the right man for you is on this website, trust the Lord and He will bring Him to you. If He's not, you can meet some decent friends in the meantime.



Just promise you won't compromise who you are for attention. Submit how you feel to the Lord and watch what He does.





P.S.--I want to applaud you for putting your pride to the side and asking this personal question! HI-FIVE!:glow:

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Posted : 12 May, 2011 05:55 PM

@Holyghostgirl, you didn't know about the flesh to favorties ratio?

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Posted : 12 May, 2011 07:18 PM

I tried unbottoning the top couple buttons on my shirt to show a bit more skin, but it still didn`t do me any good.

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Posted : 13 May, 2011 07:20 AM

Twosparrows, I kind of figured, but I was trying to give the benefit of the doubt to the men on this CHRISTIAN website...lol





Victory7, :ROFL:. You are somethin else!

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Posted : 13 May, 2011 01:13 PM

@OP:



This is an international dating site so unless you're getting views and no messages from guys in your own country, I'd suggest it's just geography that's putting people off.



Of course, there are also horror stories of foreign women marrying for a variety of reasons other than love so if you want a non-Filipino then there may be some initial issues of mistrust (even on a Christian site) to overcome...

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Posted : 13 May, 2011 06:21 PM

There isn't anything wrong with you. Most guys probably are put off by the whole immigration thing. Its a lot of paperwork.

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