Author	Thread: Hey guys what do you want?
Admin	Hey guys what do you want? Posted : 5 May, 2011 09:39 AM I know that eacgh guy is different. That being said how which would you prefer that girls contact you or we wink at you? I'm hearing from some friends on here that they get frustrated sometimes taking the time to write and no one has the decency to reply even if it's saying "thanks but no thanks" and then I've heard some say winks feel cheap lol! So this is to help the ladies out... what do you prefer (Oh and ladies feel free to tell the guys what you'd prefer also) Post Reply
View Profile History	Hey guys what do you want? Posted : 5 May, 2011 09:47 AM This question has been asked before, and if I remember correctly, most guys would prefer that you would write to them first. But, don�t just say hello, take the time to ask some questions that show that you have read their profile. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Hey guys what do you want? Posted : 5 May, 2011 10:04 AM In general, write the kind of message that you would want to reply to. Post Reply
Nkatty View Profile History	Hey guys what do you want? Posted : 5 May, 2011 11:50 AM Hehehe whoever came up with the wink sign....maybe his/her eyes were itchin or somethin....lolesttt Post Reply
View Profile History	Hey guys what do you want? Posted : 5 May, 2011 01:54 PM Before you contact someone, just take a look see where they are. I've had winks from people thousands of miles away and I'm not sure how to respond because I couldn't seriously consider somebody on a different continent! Post Reply
lynneb423 View Profile History	Hey guys what do you want? Posted : 5 May, 2011 05:10 PM I guess it's kinda silly, but I just can't send a wink to someone. I know it's just a word- but maybe if this site called it something else! :rolleyes: If I were out in a public setting I would never wink at a man; it's a 'come on' gesture IMO- and I just can't bring myself to do it here either ... for that reason. Post Reply
View Profile History	Hey guys what do you want? Posted : 8 May, 2011 07:24 AM Id prefer a message. Just be yourself and talk as if you were face to face with someone. Ask a few questions. Tell a few things about yourself that arent in your profile, etc. Post Reply
joesgeo View Profile History	Hey guys what do you want? Posted : 8 May, 2011 02:41 PM Uhh...a reply? :goofball: Post Reply
View Profile History	Hey guys what do you want? Posted : 8 May, 2011 06:13 PM I would have to say that I would want someone to show their interest. A wink is good enough for me but better yet an email with a detailed question or two can really get the conversation rolling. I have had women send an email that just says, "Hi". That's it. Then I would procede to go to their profile in which they have written nothing of substance. That can make it difficult to answer even when you want to show interest. The best approach in my opinion is to comment on something in common with regard to favorite activities. All the best to you! Post Reply
View Profile History	Hey guys what do you want? Posted : 9 May, 2011 07:53 AM Genuine communication and sincere interest is the most important thing to me. I love to have a gal ask me questions about the things I've shared in my profile that I love and share in return things that she loves too, so we can begin a new relationship, if we are both interested in doing so, from dialog first about mutual interests and loves, personalality similarities etc ... and, yes, I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, BAREFOOT LOVE IT!!! :hearts: too, having an interested gal writing me first. Right now, though, I'm only seeking loving new friendships to enjoy and sharing my heart and spirit and what God inspires me to share through the Holy Spirit on our chat forums. Love, Steve Post Reply
TonyP View Profile History	Hey guys what do you want? Posted : 9 May, 2011 07:07 PM email with some questions and about yourself Post Reply

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