Author	Thread: dislike disrespectful ignorant girls
Admin	dislike disrespectful ignorant girls Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 02:25 PM My take on this topic is that some girls don't deserve friends. I say this because girls who come on this site already have a fantasy of who they want to meet. Well when it comes to people wanting to be friends with, they are shallow and block them without even getting to know them. I have had experience with a girl user name caitlynsj who blocked me before I ever knew she was on this site. I was so mad because one, she disliked me evidently from just reading my profile and second, she has some fantasy of her Guy. Seriouslysome girls need to get out of their fantasy and make some friends. I've met some really good friends on here that may not turn into dating but I cherish them because she is a wonderful friend. That is all. God bless Post Reply
View Profile History	dislike disrespectful ignorant girls Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 03:39 PM I hear you on the friends vs. fantasy thing, but why do you sound so frustrated? I've met and gotten to know lots of cool chicks on here as friends far more often than those who don't. And for those who don't I don't give it a second thought because I'm too busy with those that do. Don't stress, just look for people to have a good time with. It's almost like you're frustrated at not getting what you don't want. Post Reply
View Profile History	dislike disrespectful ignorant girls Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 05:38 PM Why are you so vex buddy?Do you know that you'll end up being more than blocked now because you posted this here for all the girls to see?It sounds to me that you had messaged some girls (or in this case a lady that you PUBLICLY posted her name here)but even though they have'nt replied to them, you still messaged them continually.Who wants to talk to you,they are the ones you should be focusing on,while those who ignore you should just leave it as that. Post Reply
View Profile History	dislike disrespectful ignorant girls Posted : 27 Dec, 2010 03:41 AM I just want to say that a girl having a fantasy is not all bad, and maybe "getting out of their fantasy" is not as easy as it sounds. Many girls start dreaming/making up this "fantasy" at a young age, and spend their whole life building on it. When young girls play together, and they do "play weddings" with each other or with their dolls, they are not just playing but planning and dreaming about their very own wedding! I know in high school my friends and I planned at least 3 different weddings together, and we certainly talked about it more than anything else! I'm sorry that some girls don't want to be friends with you, but it is not just girls that do it to guys; guys also do it to girls. In your profile you said that you move on quickly... so if a girl ignores you just brush it off and "move on quickly". Post Reply
rainbowian View Profile History	dislike disrespectful ignorant girls Posted : 27 Dec, 2010 02:39 PM I think that the men are partially to blame for this. They send out way too many messages. Most women are absolutely SWAMPED with messages and winks, and they end up raising the standards of what they're looking for. I really wish that men would relax with all the messages. It would make the dating process that much easier. Post Reply
Joy2theW0rld View Profile History	dislike disrespectful ignorant girls Posted : 27 Dec, 2010 05:14 PM Hello Dewboy86, Your profile reads like you have a happy and full life. It may help to focus on the blessings that you have and to pray to be lead in finding the right person. All the best, Joy Post Reply
View Profile History	dislike disrespectful ignorant girls Posted : 28 Dec, 2010 12:13 PM To:Rainbowain,i now understand what you mean brother.:applause:I had done that myself,& i can tell you that a lady told me what you meant in your reply.But it's tough to wait sometimes.Being slowly rejected by ladies regularly & not sure if they still wants to talk to you anymore.I've forgotten sometimes the Post Time is different from our Eastern Time,which is about four hours apart.I've learned now that yes,we guys should wait for their response,even if it's a few days or weeks,or we'll end up pushing them farther away from us. Post Reply
View Profile History	dislike disrespectful ignorant girls Posted : 28 Dec, 2010 06:12 PM Actually, what you said rings true because they aren't what i want. But in reality, i see a profile of a girl that seems nice and i send her a message and all my messages are short, like hi, my name is....and saw your profile, please check out mine if you like. God bless.....and they will read it but will not reply. I think i speak for all guys in that we all like closure. I do and wish that girls would just say "not interested" if they don't want to talk. Of course, some guys will be persistent to wonder why but i just like closure so i can just move on. I had that one instances and i guess that kinda ticked me off. One day i see this girl's profile in town and went to message her and saw that i was blocked. I thought, what the heck? I had never talked to her on here and was wondering why. My thing is that people should be open to all chances at friendship. Like i said, i've made some great friends on here and basically think that if somebody messages you, you should atleast reply....you never know what could happen. If i get blocked, oh well, was planning on deleting this profile anyways, been on here for like a year. Post Reply
View Profile History	dislike disrespectful ignorant girls Posted : 28 Dec, 2010 06:18 PM There's some good advice here. Just let it go, water off your back. The fantasy definitely goes both ways, it just takes different shapes. Although I feel like I should point at that posting her username was a bit over the line.... If you have a problem, address the individual, and since you couldn't I think you just should have left her identity out of it. Mrwiseguy was probably right when he said you have probably now put yourself in a worse position with the women that happen across this thread. Now they're all probably afraid any interaction with you will make it onto the forums! Post Reply
View Profile History	dislike disrespectful ignorant girls Posted : 28 Dec, 2010 07:27 PM @sylii I could careless if girls avoid me cuz of this post. All it shows is that i am no fantasy guy but i am someone that likes to be friends with ppl. Now the username thing, i did that only because her profile was deleted and no longer is on the site evidently. Im not that cruel to just put a target on someone. I think the phrase "dont judge a book by its cover" rings loud on this site. You will meet some great people on here but if you are too shallow to open up to replying to messages, you will definitely miss out on making a great friend. Post Reply
View Profile History	dislike disrespectful ignorant girls Posted : 28 Dec, 2010 11:55 PM It just seems really presumptuous that even though, like you said, you were blocked before you even knew she was on the site, you are conjecturing why she did it. All of this �fantasy� bit you are talking about doesn�t really seem conclusively relevant, although I admit it sounds every bit as frustrating. Post Reply

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