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Tenshii

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 11:31 PM

Is it weird to want to get married? To find true love? To be cared for and wanted? To be devoted and devoted to?

It seems so much that people dont believe in marriage, especially those of "my" generation. Even some christians i know dont. Is it really that weird of me?

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 11:36 PM

Nope. Those are God-given desires.

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Tenshii

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 11:44 PM

That's what i thought.

I guess i just cant find someone who wants that with ME.

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Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 07:12 AM

No it's not wierd to want that at all. It does get wierd when people start worrying or obsessing about it though. I know it's easy for me to do from time to time (not so much lately though since realizing this), but it's a waste of time and counter productive the extent and frequency that some worry and obsess over it, or make it an expectation and get really bummed/freaked out/desperate when the results aren't what they want.

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Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 11:59 AM

Yes that makes sense *nods*

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Posted : 24 Dec, 2010 03:06 PM

Not weird at all, my friend. I think that some people see the high divorce rate and are afraid the same thing will happen to them.

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Posted : 28 Dec, 2010 09:17 PM

lol i was reading your thread, and thought of what i posted as my facebook status on sunday "i want to be hugged, loved, held and told i am loved. is there anything wrong with that?" so i know how you feel, i think this a God Given desire that will be granted in his timing according to his perfect plan, but we may sometimes be impatient, andf want it now, but God knows what is best for us and only wants the best for us keep your head up dear sister seek God and in his timing he will give us the desires of our heart!

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Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 01:25 PM

Nope, it is totally natural. Wanting marriage is a mature part of life because in reality, it is a God given purpose for Christians to marry (according to God's will). Therefore when married, having that partner helps us do more duties for God. I know the Bible speaks a lot of marriage and that is prove enough that marriage is desireable. I know what you mean, our generation try to avoid marriage and think living together is just as good, but they don't realize that isn't apart of God's plan and certainly God doesn't approve of it. Lust is a powerful thing and need to be in the Blood so you avoid any appearance of sin. 1 Thes. 4:3, 5:22....i say that all answers are in the Bible :)

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Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 03:29 PM

Thank you all ^__^

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Posted : 31 Dec, 2010 05:01 PM

No.Is'nt that the reason why most people on here in the first place?Just wait on God,& you'll get your answer when the time He's ready for your needs in your life in His will!:applause::glow:

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