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I don't understand...
Posted : 21 May, 2010 08:51 PM

I have been struggling with this for awhile, and I just can't seem to understand it. In the past month while talking to friends through chat they have told me that such and such a person had asked them how I was doing, but all the people that have asked about me are friends with me on facebook and they have at least one of my email addresses so they could just as easily ask me how I am doing and tell me how they are doing at the same time. Even my sister asked my best friend to tell me that she wants me to email her because she wants to know how I am doing. I don't understand what is so hard about emailing me to find out how I am doing instead of beating around the bush and asking someone that might have talked to me recently. I like getting unexpected emails from someone that I didn't email first. I know that they care and that they think about me and are praying for me, but I think it is much more encouraging to hear it directly from them and not through another mutual friend. Is it wrong to think that way?

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I don't understand...
Posted : 22 May, 2010 08:10 AM

girl.... you have every right to be confused. esp @ your sis. you should reach out to them, send them a howdy and hopefully that would open up the way for conversation:waving:

i know what your feeling though, i don't have an explanation for you. what i have experienced is that people feel uncomfortable taking the initiative; where it stems from however idk i.e in the way people view me or something else:rolleyes: either way, your not alone:waving: God bless sis!

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