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Have you been hurt before ?
Posted : 30 Sep, 2012 08:33 AM

Hi I am new here and I have been hurt before and I know there are men and women who have also been hurt, I finally have gotten to the point where I have forgiven but the reason I am waiting so much on the Lord is because I do not want to be hurt again. If you have any advice or just want to share your story I am all ears :-)

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Have you been hurt before ?
Posted : 4 Oct, 2012 04:04 AM

Dear Bro,

No one can hurt us unless we allow them to.. We can take control of the situation, and if not..let's get into our attitude.. Love shields us always..

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Posted : 9 Oct, 2012 04:11 PM

Being open and vulnerable is necessary to have a good and healthy relationship based on honesty and trust. If some one chooses to use that against you it will hurt and it is 100% their fault. Not yours. It takes time and effort to heal from that when it happens and you shouldn't persue a new relationship untill you're not hurt anymore.

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Posted : 9 Oct, 2012 04:17 PM

Also it's good that you've forgiven them. That's a big difficult thing to do but is necessary to move on. Chances are they are hurting from something else that happened to them in their life too.

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