Author	Thread: would you date someone that in a wheelchair?
Admin	would you date someone that in a wheelchair? Posted : 15 Mar, 2012 02:16 PM hhhmmmm... Post Reply
View Profile History	would you date someone that in a wheelchair? Posted : 16 Mar, 2012 01:13 AM I dont know... I just can say if I date with someone its not because someone in a wheelchair or in mercedes ... Post Reply
View Profile History	would you date someone that in a wheelchair? Posted : 16 Mar, 2012 09:04 AM What is wrong with dating someone that is in a wheel chair? I believe that i would date him as long as we love ourselves... hey what happens if your spouse gets lame in the course of your marriage? True love goes beyond physical appearance, it is the matter of the heart and besides that God created the lame and the 'well' alike so i got no problem with that. Post Reply
View Profile History	would you date someone that in a wheelchair? Posted : 21 Mar, 2012 05:22 AM Well said shalomlia! I agree with one hundred percent! I believe that God and love know no boundaries. That includes dissabilities. You make a very good point about, what if you spouse goes lame in the course of ou marriage. Anything could happen! I hope to find a husband that would stick with me no matter what. And of course I would do the same for him. So yes, I would have absolutley NO problem dating a man in a wheelchair! Either would I have a problem dating a man with any other disability. All I care about is that he is a Godly man, and our personalities match. I think that's what is most important. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	would you date someone that in a wheelchair? Posted : 21 Mar, 2012 08:17 AM Honestly, I probably would not date someone in a wheelchair. If I married a man and THEN he ended up in a wheelchair, that would be completely different. It might be hard, but I would not leave him. But it is not likely that I would intentionally start a relationship with someone who was already in a wheelchair. Post Reply
View Profile History	would you date someone that in a wheelchair? Posted : 23 Mar, 2012 02:49 AM Okay bp, let's put it this way; let's say you got an accident before marriage( hey am not praying for that to happen anyways) and you become crippled and then end up in a wheel chair. wouldn't you want someone to love and date you? are you trying to say that you will treat a spouse that gets crippled in the cause of your marriage with pity not love? I have seen lame people here(where i come from) getting married to those who are 'well' and they are happy. may be it also depends in places.... Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	would you date someone that in a wheelchair? Posted : 23 Mar, 2012 02:06 PM I knew I'd take heat because of my answer. The OP asked a legitimate question, and I gave an honest answer. There's no need to get all up in arms because I don't think I would intentionally pursue a relationship with someone in a wheelchair. If you are serious about being willing to, then you are a very special, very strong person. I guess I'm just a normal human being. Post Reply
View Profile History	would you date someone that in a wheelchair? Posted : 23 Mar, 2012 02:06 PM It's not about whether they deserve someone to love them, etc. it's simply about who we''re attracted to. Generally I'm not attracted to black women, very large women, smokers or those in wheelchairs - and none of the above makes them "less worthy" than anyone else. But attraction is more than just physical, so if the right woman came along, even those barriers would fall... Post Reply
View Profile History	would you date someone that in a wheelchair? Posted : 26 Mar, 2012 09:21 PM No, it isn't "just opinion" and inoffensive of any of the c.rap that you all are spewing. ~NO OFFENSE BUT I LIKE TO BASE MY DATING PREFERENCES ON ARBITRARY CHARACTERISTICS OF PEOPLE AND DISCRIMINATE AGAINST THEM BASED ON MEANINGLESS FACETS OF THEIR APPEARANCE THAT THEY CAN'T CONTROL~ That is NONSENSE. That is absolute nonsense and I am being generous in calling it that. S... I forget her screen name but I think it starts with an S... is exactly right, it makes no sense to say you wouldn't date someone if they were in a wheelchair but you would remain married to them. That's pity, it isn't love. "Not attracted" to wheelchairs? Give me a break. If you were attracted to wheelchairs, then I think we should all start to worry about your weird fetish. You are attracted to the person and not their circumstances. And there is something deeply, deeply wrong about a Christian site being a place that allows people to view circumstances over human beings. That isn't Jesus. And to the idiot who commented right above me, you're doing everything about life wrong. All of it. You're just doing all of it wrong, and you and most of the sociopaths on this site deserve each other. Post Reply
View Profile History	would you date someone that in a wheelchair? Posted : 26 Mar, 2012 09:23 PM And seriously, seeing wheelchair-bound people as whole people and not charity makes you a "special, strong" person? No, it makes you a regular person with some small amount of decency. I think it's like the bare minimum of politeness, honestly. Stop with the stupid platitudes and ~martyrdom~ of your difficult life of prejudice. WHAT A CROSS IT MUST BE TO BEAR. Post Reply
View Profile History	would you date someone that in a wheelchair? Posted : 3 Apr, 2012 07:27 AM As a wheelchair user myself i dont see why it is relevent??? I want people to know me for who i am and to see past my disability. Just because I have a disability doesnt make me any less of a person. Post Reply

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