Author	Thread: Whos to judge me
Admin	Whos to judge me Posted : 7 May, 2011 05:20 AM OK those who know a little about me, realize I don't have very good boundaries. I speak whats on my mind. I talk alot about sex, etc. When I say I talk about sex I blantly mean I ask alot of questions to people, or I tell them my past and my struggles. My reasoning for this, is it actually helps people by talking about it. If you have limits on it. I have heard a lot of peoples storys by giving them my background info. Well I heard someone is talking about me, gossiping, calling me a bad name, even flat out lying. Well my point to this person, and anyone else who wants to try and judge, make fun of, or talk about me behind my back. No one is perfect, we are all sinners, we all fall short. I have had a very checkered past, but one day God will use that past to help alot of people. I am very open with my story and my struggle to become pure, because I think people need to hear it. People are so different with thier church/church friends etc, they do this but then when they are alone act a totally different way. I am not hiding anything. I have nothing to hide. Jesus died for my sins. So any sin I have committed in the past, present, or future. Is not going to shock him at all. Why does it shock this paticular person? I think for the simple fact that Im bold enough to talk about these issues, and he isnt. He is very cowardly. Especially by spreading rumors about me, instead of telling me straight up. So to the particular person that thinks I am a "easy" woman. I would use a different word.But this is a christian dating site. Well I am a work in progress. And at least I am open and honest about my faults and weaknesses. I do not hide anything. You on the other hand hide alot. And also I trusted you with some things I told you, and you go and blab to different people. You are wrong for that. But I still care about you as a person. I think you are a nice guy deep down inside. I think you have alot of issues you need to work through, especially in your own self, cause it's not cool to judge, gossip, lie. I'm going to forgive you for this, but I just wanted to write a post about it first. There is a lot of gossip and judging that goes on in this site. Yall need to put that to rest. It isn't going to fix anything, and it is a sin. The same Jesus that died for your sins, died for everyone elses too. So keep that in mind next time your like. OHHH man so and so did this or said that, and bla bla bla bla bla. And one more thing to this paticular person. At any time you could have told me to be quiet, to not ask you for your help, or opion or whatever. But instead you let me talk, and tell you my business, and then you turn around and judge me for it, and make up lies. Seriously sounds highschoolish to me. We are all adults here, what we decide to talk about is between us and God. You are not on the phone listening when I talk to these men. You have no idea what God tells them to tell me, or me to tell them. Because your closemindedness can only think because I am an ex prostitute, etc that I am only talking to them to have phone sex with them. Uhhh no. Did it occur to you, that when I talk to a man that is fully fired up for God, walking in the spirit etc, he puts me in my place, and won't even allow that kind of talk. It helps me, and teaches me. ok well im getting off my soap box. Hopefully I didn't offend anyone. I just think people should be more honest and open about things, and stop this gossiping stuff. Its silly and rude. :waving: Post Reply
View Profile History	Whos to judge me Posted : 7 May, 2011 06:45 AM I was also just informed someone is trying to get me kicked off here. Well if it is God's plan for me to stay on here, then I will. If God doesn't want me on here, I will go willingly. I am not a scammer, I have nothing to scam. I am straight up, honest and blunt. If you don't like it, you don't have to talk to me, or read what I write. Post Reply
View Profile History	Whos to judge me Posted : 7 May, 2011 08:21 AM Sol, don't let anyone intimidate you from being who God wants you to be. "Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity." 1 Tim 4:12 Post Reply
View Profile History	Whos to judge me Posted : 7 May, 2011 08:25 AM So as much as I dislike letting people get what they want. God told me it's better I just delete this account and cut allties. Too much drama, with some of the people here. LSU Sports I have no idea what I did to you to make you lie about me. That is just so wrong, and you will have to go to God with that. I am a very blunt and honest person, and I truely mean no harm. But when people speak thier minds it sometimes rubs people the wrong way. And to the young woman I talked to today, I am going to take your advice. I understand what you mean, where your coming from. Well goodbye everyone.lol bye agian. 2nd deleting of the account. I hope everyone finds what they are looking for. And to Mr. LSU I will forgive you. I don't think it's right to tell lies about someone. But I guess I must have got under your skin really bad. Peace out. Post Reply
View Profile History	Whos to judge me Posted : 9 May, 2011 11:23 PM LSU??? That surprises me! If you're looking in, soluvable, I'd like to say that I really haven't seen much gossip and judging on this site. I've seen folks trying to help someone, and that attempted help being turned into "you are Judging me". Talebearers everywhere, I guess. The people who run to a person to yell 'someone said something about you' are not friends! ( simply trouble makers). God give you peace and strength wherever you are, sister! Post Reply