Author Thread: How far is to far?
EssenceofOcean

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How far is to far?
Posted : 6 Sep, 2010 07:39 PM

Hello all!

To those of us who are trying to live a Christian life and are dating, or want to date someone..how far is to far in your relationship? I do mean in a physical sence; where do you cross the line and say, "Ok, this is far enough.."

We all know as men and women our sexuality.. and our desire for the flesh is very very tempting.. and believe me I can respect that and understand it.

However, I personally have made a promise to God and myself that I will not have sexual intercourse until I am married. However, I am fine with kissing and holding one another.

I do realize that this can lead to other things. however that is where I believe God fits in to this equation. For with God all things are possible.

What are everyone's thoughts on this? Regardless of your past..for when you have become saved all things are wiped clean..you have a new slate a new beginning.

God bless, and have a great day!

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Posted : 13 May, 2012 12:43 PM

In a time where in it would seem like everyone has just gone sex crazy. This is my feelings on the matter, no vowels, no rings,[ no sex.] Commitment to one woman one man. Old school how do man and woman become one think about it there is only one way that's during the sex act they are joined as one. I'm of the firm belief that not only you become one you take on that other persons characteristics and problems, think about it how many problems people take upon themselves through sex. Not only that but how many STDs are around today let's be honest with each other, you think the one you're getting ready to climb between the sheets with will tell you I think not, and who are very willing to give it to someone else. Not legalism, yes God does forgive but forgiveness isn't a cure for a STD forgiveness is for sin.

Charlie T

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Posted : 3 Aug, 2012 09:26 AM

Most of civilization is not aware that God implanted in each person nagging feelings of guilt when they fornicate. No matter how much a person may say they enjoy sex outside of marriage..sex cannot be fully enjoyed outside of marriage. When there is no committment thru marriage then people feel just a flesh release and not the deep beauty of sexual union with a spouse. The act is devoid of the spiritual as well as the security that is really needed.



A couple, especially a woman, needs security in marriage before she can deeply enjoy the sexual union. She may even fake enjoyment just to keep or get her man. The man loses interest after having experienced sex outside of marriage. His nature is to be territorial. When the sex is over he considers it his territory to keep or dispose of it. Most men want to dispose and move on to newer or better territory.



God had/has a plan and it is the only one that works. It is well with my soul.

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Posted : 24 Jan, 2015 08:23 AM

amen

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