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Posted : 16 Oct, 2010 10:18 PM

So.. I've been hearing (or te exact reading lol) some online love stories, and read some of the testimonials on this site as well. There were some people who just flew thousands miles away after talking for less than 3 months, there are some people who got married after getting to know each other for less than a year.



I'm not saying that it's impossible since if Jesus is willing then so be it in His ways and time.



Just wanna hear what you have in mind tho about this :applause:



Thanks in advance for the responses =)

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Posted : 22 Oct, 2010 09:07 PM

lol that censor just totally took a word i wrote out of character i should have said difficult where there is a space...

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Posted : 24 Oct, 2010 04:33 AM

@Tulip: yay :applause: go for it, Tulip!



@Sillybilly: yeah I hate the censorship in this site as well =(

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2010 10:09 PM

i'm not an advocate for a long distance relationship since i was in 2 relationships were the girls were from different states but as far as the testimonials i've read on here as well i hardly believe them. chris

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Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 07:13 AM

Hi ,I wanna share about instant relationship.

Personally I believe, to know someone and leading it to marriage really does take time .It's quite risky to rush in marriage just bcos your age has reached nearly 40.



As christian we believe that marriage is once for the rest of your life..means if you are at 30 now and getting married ,you will live for more than half of your life with your future husband/wife(bible says human age will reach 70yrs if they are strong enough,remember?)



But sometimes we can't ever tell what kind of relationship we'll be going thru with someone.

Like now,I still feel kinda weird as I never experience this type of relationship before.



I am now having relationship with someone that I met in dating site a month ago..I really fall in love with him.He looks nice,romantic,decent,and fear of God.



He says he is serious and looking for life partner in short term and has loved me too.So far we only connect thru e-mail (10 reply e-mails up to today)and once a while we make few minutes call.



However I think he still tells little information about him.I don't know whether is it bcos we have just get to know ( for a month) so he needs time to tell more about himself,or it is his character not openly sharing too much about himself ..or he has something to hide.



As woman who have passed thru some relationships before and has marriage minded now,I don't want to be so naive just believe based on beautiful words &promises on e-mail,bcos in the end,woman will be in loss.(don't you think so?)



But I can't deny about my feeling for him.I can't stop thinking about him.

So what I am doing now is praying,just going ahead with what will happen and trust God completely.



If he is ordained for me & God allows me to find Mr Right by instant relationship like this ..then we shall be getting closer and getting trust on each other.

If not ,God will use anything or event to show his true colour and prove that what he has said is just lip service .



Though with some risk & consequence,still I want to give a try , be patient to know him more ,try to trust him bcos I never know which kind will work out,which kind won't.



Any comments ,my friends?

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Posted : 6 Nov, 2011 11:38 PM

I believe that if we were really spiritual as wew say we are, it should not take you 2 whole years to know if he or she wants to marry you. And if you have been with someone more than 4 years and he still has never even talked about marriage he does not plan to. And if she doesn't say yes she's not ready. I could talk forever but I think you get the point. Was this helpful to anyone? A woman should never ask a man if he wants to be married because the bible says "HE" that findeth a woman findeth a GOOD thing!

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Posted : 17 Nov, 2011 08:52 AM

Well 4 me I would consult God in prayer AND in His word first. Not given to brevity, I will 4 your sakes, be brief,lol. Lay hands on no man suddenly (take no one into your confidences too quickly) The problem with these "LOVE STORIES" you hear about, is that neither you nor they are going to follow each others blogs for the next 6-8 months, let alone 5-10 years. Align your will with His (God's) and you will find yourself no longer "wanting what you want", but WANTING what you NEED, which in turn (because you'll have "Godly" vision) will BECOME what you WANT!! sorry, failed to be brief AGAIN!!

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