Author	Thread: Categories= Not good enough
Admin	Categories= Not good enough Posted : 21 Aug, 2011 01:58 PM Ok so I am kinda new to this site but I do have a question. Why is it that most guys won't give me a chance once they see how big I am? I am not HUGE but I am most definitely not skinny but most guys I have ever talked to head for the hills once they see me in person. How do you guys get past this? Please respond and let me know! Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Categories= Not good enough Posted : 22 Aug, 2011 03:43 PM Well, there's always the option to get in better shape. Much faster and easier though, is to go ahead and post a full body photo on your profile. That way, there are no surprises when you meet up with a guy for the first time. Right now, you've pretty much just got head shots, which means you have no idea whether the guy you're talking to is really attracted to you until you've invested enough time to meet up with him. Go ahead, put your cards on the table, and post a full body shot so you know that you don't have to worry about it anymore. Post Reply
View Profile History	Categories= Not good enough Posted : 26 Aug, 2011 04:12 PM We should focus on the heart, not just the outer. I have a similar problem women would just ignore me, because of my limitations. God bless you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Categories= Not good enough Posted : 30 Aug, 2011 04:13 PM Ok... Ask yourself. Do you really want a man that solely focuses on your outward appearance? In my book, that is a very shallow person. And we have all heard that looks will fade (and they will) but it is more than that. If a man cannot get past your outward imperfections, than he probably won't stick around for your inward imperfections either. I agree that you should maybe post a full body pic of yourself if your comfortable with that so everyone gets the whole picture of you. But don't be discouraged when someone isn't interested, trust me. You don't want someone like that anyway:) Post Reply
View Profile History	Categories= Not good enough Posted : 9 Sep, 2011 05:48 PM thanks y'all. :) i did post a full body pic and i try not to get discouraged but trying doesnt mean succeeding lol Post Reply
Alanboy95 View Profile History	Categories= Not good enough Posted : 1 Oct, 2011 02:09 PM I concur with others that you should post a full body pic. I think you are better off filtering the shallow guys right away. BTW I see nothing wrong with your appearence. Post Reply
scifing View Profile History	Categories= Not good enough Posted : 17 Oct, 2011 02:34 AM i think ur gorgeous.uv got red hair which is so kool (im obsessed with red hair). i know what it feels like to feel that ur not good enough but somewhere out there there is a man who is just dying to meet you and love you.don't give up hope.besides ur still young and have alot of time. Post Reply
View Profile History	Categories= Not good enough Posted : 12 Nov, 2011 01:19 PM I have felt the same way as you. And I agree with what everyone else has said. For a guy to focus on the outer beauty is shallow. I have had the same thing happen to me on here quite a bit...I don't get it. Yes appearance is part of it, but looks won't matter when you have grown old with your partner. So many good men and women are overlooked all the time because of how they look on the outside. I know so many gorgeous women who are not stick figures that are overlooked, and it is wrong. I know God has someone out there for me. I do work out, I am just a girl with curves...if that bothers a man, then I don't need his attention anyways. Post Reply
View Profile History	Categories= Not good enough Posted : 14 Nov, 2011 01:30 PM I agree with you some guys are shallow but think of it from his perspective. If he is looking for the women of his dreams he should be honest if you are not what he is looking for. Especially long distance. God has a plan even when we can't see it or even understand. Some guys just are not attracted to bigger girls. Everyone has preferences yet most important should be their heart and if it reflects Christ. That being said attraction begins at appearance for men that is how we are built. Post Reply
View Profile History	Categories= Not good enough Posted : 9 Dec, 2011 06:37 PM First of all, you are beautiful! I was talking to God one day about this whole topic, and this was the analogy that I believe He gave me. Women are like flowers, we all come in different types...some are lilacs, others daisies, roses....etc.... Some guys prefer daisies, some roses. I am a well-built female and have been told I'm very attractive, however there are many guys that are simply not attracted to me. I checked out your profile pics (don't worry, I'm completely straight!) I just wanted to say that curves are beautiful, and you will find a man who appreciates them! Maybe you're a daisy and all the guys you talked to are looking for lilacs. Lol, hope that encourages you a little sister!:-) Post Reply
View Profile History	Categories= Not good enough Posted : 16 Aug, 2012 12:14 AM Amen to that brother Post Reply

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