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Im feeling confused and lost...
Posted : 10 Feb, 2011 10:53 AM

I feel like my life has become a yo-yo for God...for example...I meet this girl on this site and we have been talking for over a year...now she does live over seas but its like God guides me to her and her to me but we are too far apart to really develop a relationship and it hurts...and then after following God's leading to join a church, I finally get to start practicing with the band and that same week I find out that I may or may not be working every sunday but i won't know til the wednesday before whether or I have to work it that week or not...I know God is doing something and I've tried to follow His leading but because of the giving and taking away I'm feeling lost and confused... I'm confused with how this woman feels toward me and I'm lost in where God is leading me....this woman has told me that she wants to be with me as I do with her but the distance is the issue and she just simply says that it will happen if God Wills it to...I agree with this but as a good friend of mine said...we can't always rely on God to do something, we need to move and trust Him to work...well she didn't say it exactly like that...and in all of it I need more time with God, but am finding it hard to have time with working between58-63 hours a week, trying to practice for the worship band, and also trying to build/ figure out thsi relaitonship...perhaps thats the problem...but you do have to work on the relaitonship to some level...right?

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Im feeling confused and lost...
Posted : 10 Feb, 2011 01:23 PM

Sounds like your life is in hectic mode right now, storm.

I'm not sure what advice would help; but I do promise I'll pray for you and the girl you've met.





chevy

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Posted : 10 Feb, 2011 06:51 PM

I have had that confused feeling lately, also. My circumstances are different, but I think I know a little bit about what you are talking about.

What worked for me is to ask God again and again that He help me honor him in my relationships. In every contact - phone, email, IM, text. I want to honor God.

God is not the author of confusion. He wants us to follow His path for us, and so if we trust and honor Him, obeying his word to us, we will stay on that path ---- and leave confusion behind.

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Posted : 15 Feb, 2011 07:00 AM

here's some encouragement my friend!



Romans 5:1-5 "Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God.Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance, perseverance, character and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us."



So, know that the trials and the sufferings you are going through right now will ultimately bring Glory to God. So remain hopeful in that God will produce wonderful fruit within you that you will be able to share and encourage someone else. I pray that you would focus your eyes upon heaven just as Stephen did. Live for God and all else will fall into place :)

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Posted : 26 Feb, 2011 07:11 PM

Lord be with Brandon. Please help him to rest in you, and to pray to you and wait on you to hear your voice. Lord please work it all out for these two to get to spend time together if it be your will. Lord, please bless them each in every way. Lord direct their pathways as they seek you. Thy will be done. Lord give Brandon peace about the worship services, help him to know what your will is and to come into your presence with thanksgiving. Lord guide him every step of the way.

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Posted : 28 Feb, 2011 03:22 PM

Stormcountry, I'll pray for you. God bless..Kay

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