Answered prayer - and new requests

Posted : 16 May, 2010 10:11 PM

Hello,



I have a typical problem. While I say I have a problem - is the problem really me? I've seen myself worry and stress about how I think something should turn out. Later I see God had it turn out a way I hadn't thought of and of course, it was better!



Answered prayer - got the Final Divorce Decree. Seems weird to say that, much less to say it's an answered prayer. This has been going on for almost 22 months. I'm ready for life to move on.



I'm taking on all our debt, she signed Quit Claim on house to me, I'm pulling retirement loan to cover debts and (another anwered prayer) have been approved for new loan on house. ((Pray I will be able to keep up with all these payments.))



We got a last minute mediator on a Saturday morning and settled remaining issues. I have serious concerns about ex-wife having teenaged daughter but she wouldn't back down so I did. We have joint custody with her having primary custody. ((Pray my daughter will be safe.)) ((Pray my ex-wife will understand she is an enabler.))



My ex-wife has not worked in about 15 months, says she can't find work. She's not real motivated to look for work. We did finally agree she would need to be out of the house within 120 days after divorce is final. (Although I think she's looking at that like she can stay in the house for 120 days) ((Pray we will have no rough times while she is still in the house.)) She still is not real motivated to job hunt. Now ex-wife is talking of moving with our daughter out of town to live with her father - where we'd looong said we did not want our daughter in those schools! ((Pray my ex-wife will become motivated to find work locally.))



Thank you for your time and prayers.



God bless,

bama

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