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Admin	For cobbler... Posted : 2 Jan, 2012 04:23 AM ...who seems to be going through the mill at the moment. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	For cobbler... Posted : 2 Jan, 2012 08:19 PM Agreed. I just tried to message him to see how he's doing, and he's deactivated his account. I know I'll be praying for him. Post Reply
View Profile History	For cobbler... Posted : 6 Jan, 2012 11:04 AM I am really just tired everything. It doesn�t matter what I say or what I do, I am always wrong. I have begged and begged for help and all I get is apathy. People tell all kinds of things that are supposed to make me feel good, like there is nothing wrong with me, all the women I have asked out are just psyco. If I tell people that I don�t understand how to start relationships, they just tell me it�s not true. Women �give me chance� by just standing around waiting for me to just magically figure it out. And if I try to explain to people how they can help, I�m told that God�s will for me must be to just be alone for the rest of my life. Any which way you put it, the answers are all the same, go figure it out on your own, and if you can�t then that is just too bad. There is no love in any of this. James 2:15-17 (NASB) 15 If a brother or sister is without clothing and in need of daily food, 16 and one of you says to them, "Go in peace, be warmed and be filled," and yet you do not give them what is necessary for their body, what use is that? I�ve had enough. Post Reply
View Profile History	For cobbler... Posted : 6 Jan, 2012 11:47 AM Cobbler: you're doing no worse on here than me. Yup, it's true - I've met up with ZERO women either on this website or any other dating site and more than once I've really thought about throwing the towel in. Most of the women I message just send me the standard "thanks but no thanks" template; the ones that bother to respond that is... Granted, your particular thorn might make it harder for you, but be under no illusion that you're being left behind by the rest of us guys here. As for those who say you're destined to be alone/unsuitable, etc, what do they know of God's will for you!? Has He Himself told you that? Don't forget, there are plenty of "Job's advisors" around and they're as wrong now as they were way back then! I know you probably think I should drop it and let it be, but it's eating me knowing that instead of building you up and encouraging you, your brothers and sisters are doing the opposite. For all the things the devil may rightly accuse me of on the day of judgement, I don't want that to be on the list. Barnabas Post Reply