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hedgedweller

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Dont keep me alive, I wont stand for it.
Posted : 21 Jun, 2008 12:35 AM

what would you do if you we're placed in a nursing home with a stroke, etc and your mind was alright but you were left helpless?



Or you had brain damage but your body was alright?

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Dont keep me alive, I wont stand for it.
Posted : 21 Jun, 2008 12:39 AM

I have a friend on here whos name is T:goofball:mie. maybe he would push me off a mountian top.



Hummm, I will wait on your opinions becuse you probably won't like mine, ikessss, ikessss.

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DADDY'S EMPTY CHAIR

> >

> > A man's daughter had asked the local minister

> > to come and pray with her father.

> > When the minister arrived,

> > he found the man lying in bed with his head

> > propped up on two pillows.

> >

> > An empty chair sat beside his bed.

> > The minister assumed that the old fellow

> > had been informed of his visit.

> > 'I guess you were expecting me, he said.

> >

> > 'No, who are you?' said the father.

> > The minister told him his name and then remarked,

> > 'I saw the empty chair and I figured you knew

> > I was going to show up.'

> >

> > 'Oh yeah, the chair,' said the bedridden man.

> > 'Would you mind closing the door?'

> > Puzzled, the minister shut the door.

> > 'I have never told anyone this,

> > not even my daughter,' said the man.

> >

> > 'But all of my life I have never

> > known how to pray.

> > At church I used to hear the pastor talk about prayer,

> > but it went right over my head.'

> >

> > I abandoned any attempt at prayer,'

> > the old man continued, '

> > until one day four years ago, my best friend said to me,

> > 'Johnny, prayer is just a simple matter

> > of having a conversation with Jesus.

> > Here is what I suggest.

> > 'Sit down in a chair;

> > place an empty chair in front of you,

> > and in faith see Jesus on the chair.

> >

> > It's not spooky because he promised,

> > 'I will be with you always'.

> > 'Then just speak to him in the same way

> > you're doing with me right now.'

> >

> > 'So, I tried it and I've liked it so much

> > that I do it a couple of hours every day.

> > I'm careful though. If my daughter saw me talking

> > to an empty chair, she'd either have a nervous

> > breakdown

> > or send me off to the funny farm.'

> >

> > The minister was deeply moved by the story and

> > encouraged the old man to continue on the journey.

> > Then he prayed with him, anointed him with oil,

> > and returned to the church.

> >

> > Two nights later the daughter called

> > to tell the minister that her daddy

> > had died that afternoon.

> > Did he die in peace?' he asked.

> >

> > Yes, when I left the house about two o'clock,

> > he called me over to his bedside,

> > told me he loved me and kissed me on the cheek.

> > When I got back from the store an hour later,

> > I found him .

> >

> > But there was something strange about his death.

> >

> > Apparently, just before Daddy died,

> > he leaned over and rested his head on the chair

> > beside the bed. What do you make of that?'

> >

> > The minister wiped a tear from his eye and said,

> > 'I wish we could all go like that.'

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2008 05:02 AM

Brother Hedgeweller, may GOD'S peace be with you and I pray you never see the day where you are physically helpless.

I don't think I could or would be the one to push you off a mountain. I don't think I could live with myself if I did so. GOD did not give me that privilige to decide who lives or dies, no matter what circumstance they're in. WE can still do HIS work no matter what conditions we're in. The only way I could push you off of a mountain is if you were tied to my ex:ROFL: just teasing. Blessings to you my brother in CHRIST.

T:goofball:mie

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2008 12:31 PM

heh heh heh,, brother t:goofball:mie,, what sup?





Tmie,

why would you tie your ex on to me? I might land on top of her and it cushion my fall and it would defeat my purpose.



Just get me near the edge of the mountian and make sure I have a turbo electric wheel chair and I will do the rest. oh yeah,,,, a good ramp might help[ too.





sincerely, when the body GOd gives me runs out I dont want no artificial help. With him is better than here anyday. No lifes supports please. No restarting of the heart, if god is not finished then I will still be here.



If they stick me in a nursing home I will make every person in there pay dearly,,,,, starting with the nurses,,,, I will turn over every bed pan,,,,,, dumping my food,,,,,,,,Answering the nurses station phone and telling the callers this is harolds funeral home.,,,, dont mess with me,,,,,



,,,,,,, I,,,,,, WON'T,,,,,,, STAND,,,,,,, FOR,,,,,,, IT!!

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2008 01:36 PM

Hedgedweller,



You have a great sense of humor:stop: I loved the part about the bed pan!!!



I hope that I will be placed in a good nursing home instead of being a burden on anyone in my family.



I HAVE ALREADY MADE IT CLEAR TO MY FAMILY THAT I DO NOT WANT TO BE KEPT ALIVE BY MACHINES! I DO HAVE "ORGAN DONOR" ON MY DRIVER'S LICENSE, SO THAT HOPEFULLY I CAN HELP SOMEONE LIVE.



I don't want to be cremated! I know that our bodies go back to dust, but the thought of being burned up really bothers me! I realize that I wouldn't know anything about it, but I want to give my friends and family one last look at me in order to help with closure. How's that for an excuse?!



SJC1985

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2008 03:03 PM

Why thank you Sjc1985,,,



I so glad you understand i was kidding about the bed,

I would never turn it over in the bed I was in ,,,, Just the floor next to my bed so I could laugh at the matinence folks while they cleaned it up.



Now dont get me started.



If someone puts me in a nursing home,,,, I'll,,,,,,



have to slip into the siocial visiting hall and lock the door at midnight. roll the piano in front of the locked door to block anyone from getting in,,,,,,. and untune every string on the piano,,, then start banging the piano very loudly,,,the whole time singing He looks beyond my faults and saw my need,,







All kidding aside,,,, I am going to lay my head down and give up the ghost when my time comes. We serve a great God, Wonderful, Mighty in Battle is He. Even so Come Lord Jesus.



,,,,,,,,, you have a great day,,,,,,,,,,,,, :peace: o u t !!!

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2008 03:04 PM

,,,,,,, I,,,,,, WON'T,,,,,,, STAND,,,,,,, FOR,,,,,,, IT!!





,,,,,,,,,, Hedge dweller,,,,,,,,,,, Bruce,,,,,,,,,,:peace:o u t !!

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Posted : 22 Jun, 2008 09:45 PM

I took a course on "Death and Dying" in college based on a book by kybler Ross. They took us to a funeral palor. You know caskets and all. Explained the whole process: emboming fuild, casket, cremation urn, and then the Jewish way. I have chosen the Jewish way: no fake fuild (better if Christ were to resurrect me after I stinketh), no guilt frills, flowers, or hoopla for the family who neglected to love me while alive, and the pine box you are buried in was $600 compared to a plain casket at $3000 back 22 years ago. My only objection would be the ceremony-- no paid mourners but rejoicing in knowing we are not like those who have no hope but eternal life!!!



No organ donation designation on my driver's license. My family gets to make that decision. No life support, God gets to make that decision.



My grandfather had the perfect death at 84, in his favorite chair, with a newspaper, watching tv, dog at his feet and a pepsi on the table. Three months prior, he got all his papers in order, cleaned out years of clutter, organized his artwork in galaries for sale. I believe the LORD prepared him.



Well, I put in a request to just give-up the ghost in the same way.



"Oh, death where is your sting!"



Living today, not presuming on a tomorrow, pressing forward to the goal: IN CHRIST presence.



Susan

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Posted : 24 Jun, 2008 10:15 AM

hmmm...well before modern medicine people would die from the flu and other ailments that can be cured today. If there was a way to live longer I think I'd want to live as long as possible. Once you die you can't work anymore and you'll have eternity to look back on all you could have done. Even if the only thing I'm capable of is thinking in my mind I'd still like to continue doing so as long as possible. Perhaps I'd be miserable trapped in my mind, but I've discovered that I reach for God during my trials and perhaps having that much time to myself would force me to seek his face. You could pray for all those people you never bothered to mention before, you could build a friendship with the father and ask him questions having ample time to listen for his response without the distractions of every day life.



Maybe the nurse caring for me learns something the father wants to teach her. I don't know, all I know is I don't want to leave the feild untill I've harvested as much as I possibly can. I wan't to die in that feild with the sun on my face and the grain in my hand.



*shrugs* just a thought

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Posted : 26 Jun, 2008 10:05 PM

It is very hard to watch a person that was a vital, energetic person lose their abiltiy to move or breathe on their own. I see if everyday with patients. In my line of work, nurses are placed in the homes of people on ventilators, trachs, etc...life support machines in order to have some quality of life. Some use sign boards (blink their eyes) to communicate certain letters, etc...Some were coaches, teachers, etc...at one time but are now paralyzed and/or on life support. It would be like being in prison. Speaking honestly, my husband was the minister for this company. It was a Christian based organization. He didn't wish to be ventilated....He had a heart condition and the first time he was sick they ventilated him...He made me promise not to have him ventilated again...God was good. The second time God took him swiftly and gloriously. I don't want to put a damper on this post but it is close to home. I am starting over and the only way to do that is to face the past. We all

have things to deal with so why not do it together as long as the bedpans are separate!:nicenurse:

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Posted : 27 Jun, 2008 06:49 PM

strawberri, hi,



so your husband is sayinmg what i am thinking,,,, dont try to keep me alive,, I wont stand for it,,,,

My father was the firemarshall of tampa florida and a captian of the firedepart for 23 years.... he always told us to never shock his heart back because it is a most painful thing to do,,,,you might think what would the person know,,, if they are dead,,,, its not when they are dead but when they come back,,,, every muscle and body funtion is messed up,, muscles pulled,,, the whole body is hurting.



bu thatr is beside the point,,,,, i also dont never want for the artificial machines to keep me alive....



Paul said ,,I am ready to be delievered up,,,, he was not afraid and neither am I,,,,,, this will be one unhappy camper if they ever try to keep me in one of those nursing hiomes.



I will cause troulble.he he. I have a list that would embarrass you to read,,,, :ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL:



thwey will need to hire new :nicenurse: when I get finished!

to funny.



I personally think i will know when that time comes to go to the other side just like moses, jacob, paul , peter, etc etc etc,,,, he is the same to a thousand generations



,,,,,,,,,,,, :peace: out ,,,,,,,,,, Bruce

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