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Moonlight7 View Profile History	Divorce / marriage Posted : 5 Mar, 2023 07:25 AM what God has joined together The command “what God has joined together, let no one separate” refers to marriage and divorce. It is from Jesus’ teaching on marriage and divorce found in Mark 10:1–12 and Matthew 19:1–12. On one occasion, the Pharisees asked Jesus if it is legitimate for a man to divorce his wife. Jesus in essence answers, “No”: “Haven’t you read . . . that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate” (Matthew 19:4–6; cf. Genesis 1:27; 2:24). Jesus’ point is that a married couple is something that “God has joined together.” Marriage is not of human origin—it originated with God and is part of the way that God designed the human race to live. In saying “let no one separate” a marriage, Jesus taught that divorce is not God’s plan. Once a couple is married, they have been joined together by God Himself, and the union is meant to be for life. This principle holds true despite the faith (or lack thereof) of the couple. When two atheists marry, they have been joined together by God, whether they recognize it or not. If God has joined them together, then no human being has the right to break that union. Later, after Jesus says, “What God has joined together, let no one separate,” the Pharisees point out that Moses allowed divorce. Jesus agrees, but also points out that the allowance was made due to “hardness of heart” (Matthew 19:8, NASB), reiterating that divorce was never God’s original plan. Jesus’ command against separating what God has joined implies that it is possible for a marriage union to be broken and for the one flesh to be separated by divorce. There is debate among Christians about whether divorce is ever justified. Many (perhaps most) would allow for divorce in the case of unrepentant unfaithfulness on the part of one spouse (based on Matthew 19:9) or desertion of a believing spouse by an unbelieving spouse who no longer wants to be married to a believer (see 1 Corinthians 7:15). In these cases the marriage bond has been broken by unfaithfulness or desertion—a severing of something that God has joined together—and it is a tragic occurrence. Even if the above exceptions are allowed, our culture and, too often, even the church seem to regard divorce as something far less serious than it is. If marriage were simply a human convention similar to a business partnership or club membership, then people would be free to enter and exit at will. Divorce is not simply two people deciding to part company; it is one or perhaps both of the marriage partners deciding that they will act decisively to end something that God intended to be permanent. That is a serious thing! Post Reply
WonderZzzz^ View Profile History	Divorce / marriage Posted : 14 Mar, 2023 09:02 AM Don't be deceived . God forbids remarriages an all grounds of divorces . Please in fear of God stop misunderstanding Matthew 19:9 the Jewish tradition of espousal period , before the final marriage oaths . Mary and Joseph were the examples in Matthew 2 . Word fornication is applied to people who are not in wedlock . Those who cheat , divorce and remarry are adulterers . All here on Earth unrepentant adulterers will not enter The Kingdom of God as well as fornicators , sodomites , drunks , and other proud sinners . That's in the Bible ! Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Divorce / marriage Posted : 14 Mar, 2023 09:48 AM God forgives all sin when we come to him and ask for forgiveness. Divorce is not the unforgivable sin. Yes the Scriptures supports Remarrying. Maybe you need to get an understanding yourself! No man is sinless but Jesus Christ!! Post Reply
WonderZzzz^ View Profile History	Divorce / marriage Posted : 14 Mar, 2023 10:59 AM Without the repentance no forgiveness . To repent means to stop sinning and then as Jesus to forgive Those who continue in their sins , those delude themselves and listen to Satan who pose himself as jesus with a small j . There is no acceptance tor remarriage on all grounds of divorces . This is nothing , but adultery . However , God permits remarriage as one of the spouses dies . Remarriage is for the widowed only . For love ones departure frees the surviving spouse from the marriage seal . Only the new found mates must not be divorcees , but bachelors or also widowed . No one can change God's everlasting laws . Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Divorce / marriage Posted : 14 Mar, 2023 12:02 PM Proverbs 4:7 The beginning of wisdom is: Aquire wisdom:And with all your acquiring, get understanding. nasb fyi You lack Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Divorce / marriage Posted : 14 Mar, 2023 12:04 PM Article doesn't change God's Word. You posting your opinions! Post Reply

WonderZzzz^ View Profile History	Divorce / marriage Posted : 14 Mar, 2023 12:51 PM I am posting God's Words , not human words . Many Christians go to Hell , because they live not by standards that Jesus Christ demands . Matthew 7:15-21 . May God will open your lost heart . Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Divorce / marriage Posted : 14 Mar, 2023 01:36 PM Mr Wonder I'm not lost. Seems you need to examine Yourself first here ! Bible doesn't teach perfection. You're Judgemental with your own opinions! I post truth . Post Reply
WonderZzzz^ View Profile History	Divorce / marriage Posted : 14 Mar, 2023 01:54 PM Whether you like it or not . I must to tell you The Holy Truth . You live by your own understanding , but no by the True Word of God . Hebrews 13:4 . James 4:1-7 . Matthew 19:9 (Jewish espousal tradition before final marriage ) . Luke 16:18. Mark 10:11-12 . Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Divorce / marriage Posted : 14 Mar, 2023 02:01 PM You need to seek Wisdom from God . I know what truth is . Go Make your own topics here ! Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Divorce / marriage Posted : 14 Mar, 2023 02:47 PM Evidently you just don't agree with the above article. Judge yourself first . Sanctification is a process you not perfect. Post Reply