"Women.... especially those of you who, like me, have felt so much shame and confusion about your body, your sexuality, and your design.... please know that:
1. Your body shape is not a problem.
2. If a man is physically attracted to you or your body, that’s not a problem. At all!
3. Your looks cannot change your worth.
4. You can stop fretting about attracting a “pig.”
I’m sure some of you are concerned that embracing these freedoms means that you are being heartless towards men who are struggling with lustful thoughts. Shouldn’t we try to help them? Surely we shouldn’t disregard their struggle! What about “becoming a stumbling block to the weak”? (1 Corinthians 8:9)
There are absolutely ways we can help men who are struggling! And we're going to talk about those next time. If you've been heavily immersed in modesty culture, you're going to want to make sure you read the next post!"